Dancer has no expectation of me buying dances
footballguy
What do you think it means if I'm texting my ATF to ask if she will be working on a certain day and then after she tells me she will be she and says that if I ever get bored I can come in to have a few drinks and talk with her and that I don't have to buy any dances? And she says she will text me her schedule. <br />
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Is it just a ploy to get me to come in and then she will try to seduce me into buying dances? This dancer has never been pushy about me buying dances or buying her drinks. In fact she has never asked me to buy her a drink, and every time I do she starts to pay for it before I pay. <br />
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The last time I was in she didn't even say anything about dances until she had spent two hours talking with me. And even then she wasn't pushy about it at all. <br />
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Have you ever had a dancer ask you to come in just to talk to them and have a couple dances without any expectation of you buying dances? If I do go in to have a couple drinks I would still get a dance or two from her.
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Is it just a ploy to get me to come in and then she will try to seduce me into buying dances? This dancer has never been pushy about me buying dances or buying her drinks. In fact she has never asked me to buy her a drink, and every time I do she starts to pay for it before I pay. <br />
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The last time I was in she didn't even say anything about dances until she had spent two hours talking with me. And even then she wasn't pushy about it at all. <br />
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Have you ever had a dancer ask you to come in just to talk to them and have a couple dances without any expectation of you buying dances? If I do go in to have a couple drinks I would still get a dance or two from her.
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last commentIt’s like when you’re trying to buy a car and trying to get details over the phone and the car salesman just tells you to come in “so we can talk” (i.e. so he can sell you the car at the price he can make the most $$$).
w.r.t. this dancer; you are not dealing with a potential date; you are dealing with a salesperson whom is trying to make $$$ - you seem to keep on thinking that dancers are something more than just trying to get the most $$$ out of you (even if it doesn’t seem obvious to *you*) - i.e. she wants you to come in so you can spend $$$ on her.
How old is this dancer and how long has she been dancing?
If she's interested in dating you she'll ask to meet for coffee outside the club
LOL – cannot be put any better in so few words :)
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Have her head seen by a doctor. She could be overdosed and her mental faculties are starting to crumble.
Which is good because you can now go ahead and talk to her not as a customer but a potential date.
Thing though is that she never asked you out.
What F is that? Something is missing there.
She should be talking about stuff like places she is mostly going like where she buys her makeup, clothes, groceries. From there you can simply insert a sentence like "Whoa, I've been there and that's where I usually [BS paragraph here]"