PDAs ?

Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)

No – no Personal Digital Assistants.

I’m talking about Public Displays of Affections.

We all have our “quirks” but for me I’m not down with couples that seem like they are getting it on in public – to each their own of course – but when in the public domain; one should be aware as to their behavior IMO.

I’m not talking about hand-holding or a peck on the cheek – that is affection – I’m talking about mouth kissing and hugging in such a way that it is like they are groping each other and trying to make a baby.

I am sitting at a Starbucks right now – and 2 feet in the table in front of me is a guy and a girl in their early 20s kissing on the lips every 10 seconds and holding/groping each other as if they were in a damn no-tell Motel – really? – do I have to watch this shit – I could not look – but they should not make it that obvious that it’s hard not to draw attention – wtf?

So – where do you fall in the PDA line:

+ does not bother you at all

+ get a fucking room

+ other

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san_jose_guy
10 years ago
So what is it like when you go to a strip club? How hot and heavy does it get in the front room of the clubs you go to?

RickyBoyDugan makes allusion to this in his article pertaining to ChicagoLand, a well known place I will not mention the name of. There are lots and lots of others.

SC's are supposed to be collective experiences. If you don't want that, book with an escort.

So if pretty much anything goes in the SC front room, then you will see lots of exactly what you have described. If one girl is doing it, that will get everyone else heated up and likely doing the same.

At the raunchiest clubs this is how the girls get the VIP dances and it is how get some front room money too.

At a park I was at recently a teenage couple was getting into some real nice and gentle kissing. Us old farts should remember back and learn from that. So no, they didn't bother me at all. If I could have encouraged it, I would have.

SJG
Papi_Chulo
10 years ago
“… So what is it like when you go to a strip club? How hot and heavy does it get in the front room of the clubs you go to? …”


Of course I don’t mean a strip club – there are naked women walling around for peace sakes – I’m talking public places like a store; restaurant; etc.
steve229
10 years ago
@Papi - if PDA between a young couple bothers you, I can only imagine how you'd react to a middle-aged Sugar Daddy making out in public with his mid-20's Sugar Baby, lol

My SB and I have "canoodled" in restaurants, movie theaters, on a park bench, at the Zoo (pandas!), in the mall (amazing how affectionate a girl can get when you buy here a new pair of shoes), and yes, at Starbucks (Pumpkin spice latte!).
Papi_Chulo
10 years ago
^ enjoy your PDAs b/f the economic boom goes into full effect
steve229
10 years ago
"First it was Taco Bell and now it’s Starbucks."

In fairness to Papi, it was Chipolte, not Taco Bell
Papi_Chulo
10 years ago
I have my Café Cubano in the morning and Starbucks in the late afternoon/early-eve.
gawker
10 years ago
Many years ago I worked in a public high school and one afternoon while the baseball and softball teams were practicing outside I started down a back stairway near the gymnasium and came across a 16 yo girl orally pleasuring one of the baseball team members. While not as public as you are referring to I was bowled over at the brazen hussy blowing this kid's mind (and other parts). I sent them both off to practice.
Papi_Chulo
10 years ago
Well – actually I did mention Taco Bell in a post a few days ago to which Che took me to task on.
JohnSmith69
10 years ago
Doesn't bother me in the slightest if it's a cute young thing. I just wish it was in a club so I could have her next. Sometimes my ATF and I make out in public, just cause I like to make all the youngs studs jealous.

If the woman is older like my age, then fuck no. I don't want to see that shit. But older women are rarely that horny or fun.
sharkhunter
10 years ago
I never see that. You have to get Cinemax or something to see that where I live. However I never go to Starbucks either. They don't have all these restaurants on the planet I visit.
Dougster
10 years ago
Do PDAs protect against Ebola?
Clubber
10 years ago
I usually ask the guy if he'll share. Well if the female is pretty decent. If she isn't I ask him he would like to borrow my glasses. One of those two always stop them..
lopaw
10 years ago
No I don't like it much either, especially if there is a huge age difference between them...that's just really really gross IMO. But even teenagers or 20-somethings need to get a room.
motorhead
10 years ago


"Do PDAs protect against Ebola?"

They're trying. It's a new bureaucratic agency in Washington.

Pathogen Defense Agency
eyeamlong
10 years ago
.... Get a room...
jerikson40
10 years ago
I dunno....not sure it has really registered to me as something that bothers me very much. I think it's a lot more popular in Europe as opposed to the US, and people are quite a bit more open.

Honestly there are some countries where people are extremely shy about even the most minor PDA, like holding hands or touching. To me that's really strange, and feels very cold. But I guess that means that PDA's don't really bother me.

Chalk me up as a "does not bother me at all" kind of guy. Unless the chick is really ugly I suppose. But I'm more lenient about stuff like that. Cuz me and my GF are doing it all the time in public, so I guess I can't complain...
SlickSpic
10 years ago
Unless the situation is out of hand, PDA's don't bother me.
georgmicrodong
10 years ago
Given that I don't think there's anything wrong with consensual sex, I don't really have a problem with it. It's possible they coitus in public might bother me, but I have not experience on which to base a firm opinion.
shadowcat
10 years ago
A couple of years ago one of my favorites wanted us to dress up to go out to dinner. She said "I want to see their tongues wag when I kiss you and call you daddy". It didn't happen. We did do dinner but in casual clothes.

Would that have upset you Papi?
chandler
10 years ago
Doesn't bother me at all, unless they're obviously just doing it for the attention. Then it's a bit annoying in a "Sorry, kiddies, you're not on reality TV" kind of way.
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