So, the stripper has agreed to VIP and all the acts that were discussed. You pay for the VIP room, and promise $100 tip. You get to the room and the stipper wants the tip upfront. She says that many guys have walked out on her in the past after the deed was done. Some promised to go to the ATM but never returned. What do you do? You have only 15 minutes in the VIP and the time is ticking. Do your refuse to give the tip, give half of the tip, or place your tip in a neutral place so all can see?
In recent years I have only been asked for payment upfront once and she was so hot that I let the little head do the thinking and she turned out to be a ROB. Now the shoe is on the other foot. I got burned, so I won't prepay again ever.
In my experiences paying first almost always leads to disappointment. I don't do it anymore, if they demand up front payment its a deal killer.
Maybe try showing the money and putting it in your pocket. She now knows with certainty you have it and if she's still demanding up front she is probably not going to meet your service expectations.
A tip is an extra payment in gratitude for excellent service rendered. By definition, you cannot tip before there is service. As proof of this point, I will bet that nobody has ever tipped the waiter in a restaurant as soon as they arrived.
I didn't even realize some people have the nerve to ask for a tip before they even do anything.
As far as getting me or asking me to prepay for dances, that shouts out a red flag warning. It's a given that I will not be getting any repeat dances after hearing that unless she forgets about it. I might still buy one maybe even two dances if I'm feeling lucky but no more even if she doesn't ask for the money up front for the rest.
An ROB always ask upfront, if they do I know I'm know I have wasted my time. I have walked early just to keep my dignity, which in retrospect seems funny.
Some extras girls will ask for a specific tip as compensation for the extra services they are providing. I've got no problem with that as long as the service is provided and then the tip is paid.
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Maybe try showing the money and putting it in your pocket. She now knows with certainty you have it and if she's still demanding up front she is probably not going to meet your service expectations.
As far as getting me or asking me to prepay for dances, that shouts out a red flag warning. It's a given that I will not be getting any repeat dances after hearing that unless she forgets about it. I might still buy one maybe even two dances if I'm feeling lucky but no more even if she doesn't ask for the money up front for the rest.