There is nothing quite as hot, in my opinion, as that beautiful girl next door look. You know, the type of girl who is naturally beautiful and holds herself in a respectable, elegant and casually confident, yet down to earth, way. I always enjoy dealing with these types of girls and even more when I can get them OTC. I had one like that the other night and it was one of the best OTC adventures I've had in a long time.
Of course, once you get to know them, you realize that they have the same issues as the trashy looking gals, and one such girl provided me with just about my worst OTC adventure ever, but I still find the buildup to be a lot of fun.
When I hear “girl next door type†I automatically assume it is describing the girl’s look and not her demeanor.
In terms of looks; for me personally; I’m kinda the anti girl-next-door look type – for me the girl next door look/dancer is like driving a minivan; i.e. not very exciting – I like the freaks in terms of women w/ bodies that blow my mind which for me means incredible curves and not a “normal†body look (i.e. normal boobies; normal booty => boring)
Anyway - maybe my comments are not what the OP was supposed to be about but …
I tend to agree with Rick on this issue. When Hefner started Playboy, that was one of his objectives: to show America what was underneath those tight sweaters in the 50's and early 60's. I personally love it when the pretty girl next door becomes the pretty whore next door.
Girl Next Door Look is what got me into my first emotionally negative situation with a dancer. Except I would call it more Farm Girl Look.
This would be the Cathy who I tried to chat up and ask out at the Brass Rail in Sunnyvale, which I have posted about various places.
Actually I like the more extreme stripper / porn star look. But at the Brass Rail back then most of their dancers were just so redneck. You could even say they were white trash.
Cathy was also this, but I could see a softer side of her, and so that gave me some way of interacting with her, where as I would not have been able to interact with the others. With the others I could not envision anyway that I could engage in intimacy with them.
The girls I had had dealings with in high school and college were well off. They had more layers of social convention and propriety insulating them. They played games and I was always getting shit on and treated like dirt. I was getting screwed, just like Elliot Rodger of UCSB was.
Cathy was not like this. I mean sure there are protocols and scripts and all. But with her emotions close to the surface, she can't always hide them. She was working class. It is just different. Also the dancing and parading around intensifies it.
So I convinced her that I was something other than another customer asking for OTC-P4P, which she did not do. Once she accepted me at my word, I had her. But I was already in way way over my head. I had no idea what I was doing.
It ended up with her mad at me. She was mad because I'd hurt her feelings, even though I'd never touched her. She was mad because I'd made her mad in front of other people. BR girls don't talk to people the way she was talking to me. But she was also mad because in letting me see how mad she was, she was showing me how much I had hurt her. She would have rather kept that concealed. I had zero experience dealing with women in this kind of territory. And this had nothing to do with the fact that she was a Go-Go dancer. It was just that she was working class and that I was a guy with a job.
So yes, I do under stand the GND look, and I do go for it, even though my real preference is a more cultivated dancer / porn start look.
I'm with Papi....anti girl next door...I'll take a trailer park trashy Courtney Stodden blonde bimbo teetering around in 8 inch platform stilettos and an impossibly short and tight dress with no panties or bra and huge tits and big hair and fake eyelashes, teasing and posing and trying to give all the men boners...
In what neighborhood is this? Since I went to 5 elementary schools, 2 intermediate schools, and 2 high schools in various city, country, and suburb areas of central to southern California, Girl Next Door can vary greatly.
I like a hybrid between the GND and a smokin' hot porn star. Hard to find this mix along with a good personality to go with it. Most new dancers seem to try their hardest to attain the complete porno look, whicj when done well can be really really hot. When done wrong, however, it's a train wreck.
Yeah, I'll fall for that look every time, as long as there's a decent personality that goes along with it.
jerikson's preference reminds me of that song with the refrain "I like my women a little on the trashy side." Not my thing, though. A pretty girl will draw my eyes way more often than the over done type.
I too like the "girl next door look". A while back I was discussing shoes with a stripper and I said "too bad the club won't let you wear tennis shoes. It would make you look more like the girl next door" she replied that she didn't want to look like the girl next door. When you think about the stage names that they pick, it doesn't sound like they want to be thought of as the girl next door.
"too bad the club won't let you wear tennis shoes."
Wow. Probably the last thing I'd ever say to a stripper. But hey, I guess I'm jealous of the guys who love the girl next door. Must be a whole lot easier to find super hot girls if the average girl next door is all it takes. Hell, there's a LOT of those.
I, on the other hand, have an EXTREMELY tough time finding super hot chicks that match my criteria.
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In terms of looks; for me personally; I’m kinda the anti girl-next-door look type – for me the girl next door look/dancer is like driving a minivan; i.e. not very exciting – I like the freaks in terms of women w/ bodies that blow my mind which for me means incredible curves and not a “normal†body look (i.e. normal boobies; normal booty => boring)
Anyway - maybe my comments are not what the OP was supposed to be about but …
This would be the Cathy who I tried to chat up and ask out at the Brass Rail in Sunnyvale, which I have posted about various places.
Actually I like the more extreme stripper / porn star look. But at the Brass Rail back then most of their dancers were just so redneck. You could even say they were white trash.
Cathy was also this, but I could see a softer side of her, and so that gave me some way of interacting with her, where as I would not have been able to interact with the others. With the others I could not envision anyway that I could engage in intimacy with them.
The girls I had had dealings with in high school and college were well off. They had more layers of social convention and propriety insulating them. They played games and I was always getting shit on and treated like dirt. I was getting screwed, just like Elliot Rodger of UCSB was.
Cathy was not like this. I mean sure there are protocols and scripts and all. But with her emotions close to the surface, she can't always hide them. She was working class. It is just different. Also the dancing and parading around intensifies it.
So I convinced her that I was something other than another customer asking for OTC-P4P, which she did not do. Once she accepted me at my word, I had her. But I was already in way way over my head. I had no idea what I was doing.
It ended up with her mad at me. She was mad because I'd hurt her feelings, even though I'd never touched her. She was mad because I'd made her mad in front of other people. BR girls don't talk to people the way she was talking to me. But she was also mad because in letting me see how mad she was, she was showing me how much I had hurt her. She would have rather kept that concealed. I had zero experience dealing with women in this kind of territory. And this had nothing to do with the fact that she was a Go-Go dancer. It was just that she was working class and that I was a guy with a job.
So yes, I do under stand the GND look, and I do go for it, even though my real preference is a more cultivated dancer / porn start look.
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Sure you did, RickyBoy. Sure you, did.
A sweet, demure girl next door aint my cup of tea
Hey Rick !!!
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More like a trashy, slutty, dumb blonde bimbo....but "skank" ?? Yeah might be something for her to strive for in her future....
jerikson's preference reminds me of that song with the refrain "I like my women a little on the trashy side." Not my thing, though. A pretty girl will draw my eyes way more often than the over done type.
Wow. Probably the last thing I'd ever say to a stripper. But hey, I guess I'm jealous of the guys who love the girl next door. Must be a whole lot easier to find super hot girls if the average girl next door is all it takes. Hell, there's a LOT of those.
I, on the other hand, have an EXTREMELY tough time finding super hot chicks that match my criteria.
I'm jealous.
True dat Steve dude.
I'm pro girl next door. As long as she's kind of slutty!
WEEE-YAWWW!!!!