I have a very hot favorite who already seems to be taking things for granted, even though it has only been a few months. First, she assumes that I will see her each week. Then, when I finally agree to a direct meetup and take her out for dinner rather than seeing her at the club first, she orders the largest steak on the menu, which is meant for 2 people, and takes most of it home. But ok, I can live with those things. But, most importantly, the sex is becoming mechanical and rushed. She knows what really gets me going, but either doesn't remember or cannot be bothered to do it.
It is obviously time to move on. I get bored with them fast enough even when they are motivated to please, nevermind when the experience is mediocre.
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last commentI would be ecstatic with plain old 'so so' these days; long dry spell for this old monger.
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She is bored with your rich studlyness, RickyBoy? How can that be? Isn't The System supposed to prevent that from happening? Some stupid system if it doesn't.
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Dump the chick Rick. You need to find yourself a pornstar to hang out with!
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Both ATF's and regular PL's have an expiration date.
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Why would you tolerate that more than once? Lol @ the thought of her ordering the biggest steak on the menu and taking it home.
This goes back to my initial question in another thread: why do people take these girls out to dinner and such? I don't get it. Theres nothing "hot" about someone stuffing their face with food they are typically too broke to buy. She can use the money you're giving her for sex to buy a steak later.
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I bet she read RickyBoy as a pushover from day one. A few months later, our self-fancied genius of stripper psychological insight, RickyBoy, finally clues into the fact that she did. Now he is trying to summon the cajones to finally act - months later than he should have. Way to be "the man" "in control", RickyBoy!
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" she orders the largest steak on the menu, which is meant for 2 people, and takes most of it home"
Her BF must like steak
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^^^good one Steve!!! Lol ðŸ‘ðŸ‘👠I am also guilty of taking these slits out too dinner...they not only order an entree but also appetizer and dessert... What gets me is they don't even finish the app or the entree
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I love taking my ATF out to eat, probably because I actually like her.
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To be clear, she has been very solid up to this point. Far from the best favorite that I've ever had, but also far from the worst. The issues with her, including increased expectations and decreased performance, all cropped up in the last couple of weeks.
I took her to dinner because she didn't want to work in the club that night. It was not horrible, but she took advantage of it and obviously made assumptions about what she could get away with.
Now some guys would use this as a teaching opportunity, but I no longer have the patience to invest much time in training these girls. I would much rather just jettison one who is not working out well and start fresh.
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RickyBoy: " but I no longer have the patience to invest much time in training these girls."
Despite your (internet) tough talk, anyone who reads your stories can see it's the girls training you, not the other way around.
I'm sure when she got home she posted this on her FaceBook:
*** SLAM DUNKED THAT FAGGOT RICKY-BOY ***
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Those leftovers were so-so. I told that chick to order the steak medium-rare. She better not screw up next time.
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LOL slick. You better eat 'em up, 'cause that's the last steak you're gonna' see for a while. ;)
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Back to grilled cheese, again!
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That's why a vegan is optimal. I'll settle for a vegetarian if she is very hot. A pescetarian better be able to be mistaken for a supermodel. Girls with looks at their primary value aren't meant to eat meat...
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Lol
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Some dancers figure at least two dinners out every week, with leftovers taken home. One way to budget for food for her and the boyfriend.
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I know what Rick is talking about regarding dancers quickly taking things for granted.
The other night my (soon to be ex-) CF sat down to join me. She glanced down at the table at my drink and said "I'm surprised there's not a White Zin there too" meaning I was supposed to have already ordered "her" drink and have it waiting for her. Sheesh!
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That's why people should date Latinas. They don't order food, they make you food. They also slash your tires when you piss them off. Oh, the double edged sword.
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lol Slick so true. Those hot blooded chicas ought to come with a warning label.
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I'll put up with a little shit if the sex is good enough. But if it's getting mechanical and rushed ... she's taking things for granted, time to move on
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Slick - It is obvious that you have never been married to a Latina. My ex wife couldn't cook shit and always pigged out when we went out to eat. You do have the slashing of tires correct however. LOL.
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So many people live in their own little dream world. The flip side of this are custies who think that, after they've spent "enough" money on her, a dancer will start giving it too them for free.
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