Butt slide

Plus One.

Frankly, I'm happy to take any position the dancer wants me to. It really makes no difference to me and if the dancer can give me a better grind, I'm happy to oblige.

Strip club rule #1: Always sit the way the lady tells you to -- she's the expert.

Agree with Wolf and motor. I started a thread here (or maybe old ZB), except I called it scrunching down. Besides physical aspects mentioned, I'm against it on principal in that dancer is asking me to adapt to her- no honey, its' the other way around for me.

@Lone-Wolf - I don't mind being butt-slid closer to the edge of the seat. Part of it is probably that I'm in my 30s, but in my experience I enjoy those dances better than the ones where I'm sitting with proper chair posture. Maybe I just haven't met dancers that really know how to give a proper dance when one is sitting "normally"?

I agree with ATACdawg and RPO (of course -- I've already cast my vote). You don't lose control when you sit the way the dancer says, you just increase the chances of getting off.

Agree with Wolf. Too old for that, especially on the usual cushioned but straight-backed couches.

One local club has couches with an additional back cushion that gives more support and makes the position more comfortable. Wish other local clubs would provide these.

I only get that from one dancer and I ain't complaining one bit. I'm sitting on a bar stool and she is a short spinner. That allows her to rub her bare pussy against my cock. Otherwise she couldn't reach it.

Kind of depends on the couch or seat you are in, but never really bothered me at all. If thats what I need to do for her to give the best LD possible, then I am happy to do it.

As long as the seat has some cushion against my back, I'm happy to slide down. As others have mentioned, she is in a better position to give me a high friction dance. I've also found that girls who ask for this are more comfortable with the idea that I'm going to get hard during the dance and the various things that might occur as a result. She's more likely to understand exactly how I want my cock to lay so she can give me the most pleasure during the dance. She's more likely to not be bothered if my erection starts to poke out from the top of my pants. And she is more likely to get me off during the dance, and girls who ask to slide down seems to expect and try to make this happen.

At first I thought the butt-slide was when she slides my cock between her butt cheeks.

I agree with LDK - I automatically assume that position without being asked.

I don't enjoy it either

That happened to be my favorite position, and I dislike it when the dancer asks me to scoot back and sit upright. Every time a dancer has asked me to sit upright I have had a mediocre dance at best. When she asks me to scoot down to the edge of the couch I usually known I am in for a very good dance.

I suspect this has a lot to do with the size of your gut. I am lean and mean and my lap starts in a an upright seated position.

Not only a big gut but a small package under it. I've been asked to sit upside down on the chair so she could find it.

Sitting upright doesn't allow the dancer to get into the full range of motion.