Diamond in the rough

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• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  Yoda, alcohol and drugs probably make it easier too. A lot of these girls are high when they're working. My ATF told me years later that she never once went to work at her club without getting high first. I was her best customer and I never suspected. Drug use is pretty widespread among strippers in my opinion, even though they all deny it.
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  Yoda, I agree. When others around you are doing things, that also makes it easier to rationalize that's it's really not that big of a deal. The girls who are really opposed just leave, The ones on the fence think, what the hell, everybody else is doing it, I might as well too.
• Yoda

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  19 years ago

  As girls dance longer they realize what it's going to take to make bank and come to grips with doing things they probably would rather not be doing. The cash flow makes it easier to deal with.
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  I think that in general for many girls, maybe even most girls, the longer she has been dancing the more she's likely to let you do. Think about it - if each month she goes just a tiny bit further than before, after several years she's going a whole lot further than when she was new. After she's done someting with a couple hundred strangers it probably no longer seems like very much to her, so letting a regular go a little further than the average guy probably seems pretty natural to her. Plus a lot of guys are going to ignore her rules and after awhile she probably gets tired of fighting with them, especially if it results in more money.