That only happens to me by accident. If I go in on a day my ATF or other faves aren't working, I'll sit at the bar and see if anyone catches my eye. If no one does, I'll just have a few drinks and flirt with the bartender (she's one of the most fun people I've ever met!)
I'll sometimes walk in without plans to see a fave. If nobody strikes my fancy, I leave content having enjoyed eye candy with my drinks. But often I'll find someone to do 4-5 lap dances with.
I don't go very often so if I get the chance, the idea is to get some lappers and maybe an LDK! But I'm not so blind that I would get dances off just any girl there...I do have standards.
I wish I'd known BBBJBecky was in town...we could've gone together!
I have done that many times. I just go in, watch the stage show, have a beer, watch the game and maybe get a dance. There are many times I do not see a dancer that strikes my fancy.
For me going to a SC and not getting lappers is like going to a restaurant and not getting anything to eat.
Having said this – on occasion I have gone to a SC with just the intention of killing some time – I’ve either done this b/c I have overspent on previous visits – or I’m just bored and don’t necessarily feel like getting LDs in the SC but don’t feel like being home either – but almost every time I’ve gone with the intention of not spending and just hanging out; I end up spending as much as my regular visits (and sometimes more) – such is the life of a PL.
I always go in with the intention to get dances, but if there's no one I like, I'm happy to just drink. If I can find a dancer who is fun to talk to, or an obnoxious crazy drunk, I'll just sit with her and buy her drinks
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