want to know if stripper REALLY LIKES YOU, may try KISSING HER (on the MOUTH)

I am only thinking about those who use the RL/davids strategy of not spending money. Those who pay can comment on the meaningfulness of kisses to paying customers.

My think on this has changed since my initial response:

I usually avoid any physical contact with strippers when I am trying to pick them up if they seem like the type who will be picked up the first night. Often they end up touching or trying to kiss me. In the former case I brush them off, b/c they are trying to get me into the horny customer frame. Kisses I will allow, since most strippers seem to consider these meaningful as you correctly observe.

For strippers who seem to be type who want you to go slower, then I will try making lighter physical contact with them as time progresses. (Using various pretexts for this.) But I won't go as far as kissing with this type, b/c I think it generally goes against "stripper ethics" to kiss customers in the club. Again if they initiate though, fine with me, and it is almost certainly an indication that she wants to fuck you. (Maybe why they are so reluctant to give them out?)

OTOH, I am certainly not closed to success stories in which the customer initiates the kiss.

Have you luck with kissing strippers, RL? What's your take on the subject? You seem like the type to apply the direct aggressive approach and just take the lead.

Do you try?

Very true.

It's personal to some strippers. It can be a sign that a stripper WANTS to spend time with you OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE?

not counting davids

RL how many GUYS have YOU KISSED on the lips after selling them a BLOWJOB?

How much does it tell you about a dancer when you go to kiss her (wheter on the lips or cheek) and she's already scanning the horizon for her next victim??? If she talks to you after the LD, and goes for the kiss, or allows the kiss, I'd say that says something. Maybe some girls won't allow kissing on the lips for fear of catching cold or whatever. I know, I know, you've spent so much time in contact already, and why would it matter, but there's got to be some thinking along those lines going on.

KISS KISS KISS KISS her LIPS

Are you going to KISS her on the LIPS?

If a stripper REALLY LIKES YOU, it may be EASIER for you to KISS her on the LIPS.

How about KISSING a stripper who has SOLD you a BLOWJOB on the LIPS?

Abbie:

As the song goes " A kiss is just a kiss and asigh is just a sigh ... ," but when you whip it out for God, security, other dancers and customers to see ... Is it still LOVE ?

AN...now that would be indecent exposure and probably get you tossed...out. Plus no self respecting stripper would go for the old whip it out trick.

Why not whip out your Johnson instead. Sure it's a little less subtle, but it should cut through all those little annoyances and let you know if she really likes you.

David S. I'm in on the test...

Wouldn't the fact that the stripper initiated it be a good indication? I'm not saying that any of the kisses were long passionate kisses. They were just normal kisses. I never initiated the kissing unless she did earlier in the dance.

Maybe, maybe not. Kisses, on the lips, are pretty rare around here, at least. (Rarer than any type of extras, in fact). I am told the commanility depends where in the country you are from.

I would still trust how see reacted to one you initiated more than one that she did.

Anyway, that's an experiment I would like to try. How about we all go into the clubs for the next month or so and report back on how it works (customer doing the initiating, I mean)?

Oh and needless to say, there ought to be some indication that she likes you before you try this. Else it would be very rude and trashy. Just do it when you are uncertain as RL suggests.

Sorry, guys, for feeding the troll. I just got out of a four hour long doctor's deposition, and I am in a strange mood...just couldn't resist.

I'll try to restrain myself in the future.

Sorry, RL, every time that I have been with a dancer that I wanted to kiss on the mouth, she has always beaten me to it. Hasn't this been your experience, too?

I think how she reacted to you initiating the kiss would be more telling than if she initiated it. In the latter case she is more in the lead, in control so it could very well be a ploy.

What's your take, RL?

Been there, done that. Not only that, most of the time, the dancer initiated it with me. :)

Sounds like good advice. Let's add that to our collective bag of tricks.