Art of conversation
Girls at strip clubs appreciate stimulating conversation. It has been my experience that I get much more for my money if the prelude to a private dance or VIP activity involves genuine dialogue. Ask her about herself. Talk about more than her experience working at clubs. Most dancers are eager to share personal information about themselves (to at least some extent). They will be flattered by the perceived interest you have in them.
And be confident, and even assertive, as you talk with them. Offer information about yourself only if it is requested or if the information you are offering relates to what she has told you about her life. Smile and look into her eyes as you communicate with her.
I'm not suggesting this will pay dividends every time. But my experience is that it does more times than it does not.
And be confident, and even assertive, as you talk with them. Offer information about yourself only if it is requested or if the information you are offering relates to what she has told you about her life. Smile and look into her eyes as you communicate with her.
I'm not suggesting this will pay dividends every time. But my experience is that it does more times than it does not.
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There is, of course, a flip side. Some dancers just can't carry on a conversation, for whatever reason. I found that girls who are unable or unwilling to show interest in a customer don't give worthwhile private dances--they're much too mechanical. We're all aware that there's a financial transaction involved, and that's fine. But if there's no connection at the table, there won't be one in the private room.
@ Calculus - Agree with all your points, Not only is stimulating conversation with a dancer enjoyable, it's also the perfect way to get tangent to her curves.
“Men fall in love thru the eyes – and women fall in love thru the earsâ€
If I’m having a convo w/ a dancer; my big head gets stimulated but my little head is totally disinterested and will go to sleep.
IME – my super-hard johnson and my spending seems to often get a dancer “in the mood†– my hard johnson tells her I’m really into her and this gives her the idea that I’m going to be spending on her and this seems to get her “in the moodâ€.
to a private dance or VIP activity involves genuine dialogue."
Non-sense. They either do things or they don't. Who you are, how you dress, your "stimulating conversations" have about zero impact on it. They may, however, stroke your ego and act like these things matter to them. But do the experiment both ways and find out the real truth.
Whether you get a good dance depends on the dancer and her skills, what she is willing to do, and whether or not you act like an ass during the dance. If she gives you a good dance, then she gives everyone else a good dance.
The best way to tell if a dancer gives a good dance is to watch how many times she gives dances, how customers react with her, and how many songs a customer stays with her. If she goes all over the club asking each guy for a dances, and she doesn't get more than one or two songs from each guy, skip her.
If she has customers asking her for dances and she stays in the back for 4 or more songs with multiple customers then she is someone to consider. Unfortunately if you are just passing through then you may not have time to get a dance from her that day. If you regularly visit a club, this isn't a problem.
So you're saying it makes no differential?
Strippers’ behavior is way to erratic to be able to be quantified