This past spring while travelling, I had a great time at two clubs in different cities where you're not allowed to touch the dancer, but she's allowed to rub her body over yours in every way imaginable. It had been ages since I got dances in a club like that. Ever since the early days of my pervhood over 10 years ago, I've made a point of avoiding them. I had forgotten how good one-way contact can be. There is something to be said for allowing the girl to focus 100% on pleasuring you without the distraction of warding off your advances into her forbidden zones. Likewise, I actually appreciated giving my hands a break, not striving for once to make it to the next base, and just enjoying everything she brought on me. The dancers in these clubs had really learned well how to work for the most effect within the restrictive dance rules, with only minor bending. In that setting, the sensation of a brief brush of nipples across my lips or her occasional caress of my dick was heightened well beyond what the same moves would produce in a place where anything goes. While I'm not about to give up my high mileage haunts, it was a nice break from the usual which I wouldn't mind repeating.
I'm with Chitown, I don't care for one-way at all. I can enjoy limited touching like restricting it to arems, legs, butt and back, but to not touch at all seems really unnatural. I've found that most places in the Southeast only allow one-way contact although I've run into girls in such places who ignore the rules. Shadowcat obviously has found an exception. (And I don't consider south Florida to be part of the Southeast - it's a foreign country.)
I now spend the majority of my club time in a couple of one-way contact Massachusetts clubs making an occassional visit to full-contact Providence RI clubs. I find many of the dancers are more relaxed feeling that they have more control over what is going on in the private dance area. I still love the two-way full contact concept but don't always have time to drive to RI. The right woman can make a one-way contact dance a truly memorable experience.
I agree that one-way contact can be good. Sometimes it's nice to let the dancer have full-touch control, being left to her own validation as to what she wants to do to you. I have had some great experiences this way.....with the right girl, of course.
I know, and wish I could help it. But, to paraphrase a contemporary philosopher from East Texas, "the perverted life ain't no good life, but it's my life."
Chandler, you have reached a degree of epicureanism and aesthetic refinement to which I can only aspire. I find one way contact dances to be pointless and frustrating. At my favorite club (and the club I go to for an occasional change of pace), all dancers have two way contact, with only the area under the g-string off limits (generally....). SInce I am not interested in touching under there (I have, but only when my hand has been directed by that of a dancer), that is not a significant restriction. Unfortunately, my earliest strip club experiences screwed me up, because I have the idea that the best private dancers are much like h.s. make-out sessions, without as much kissing. When I get one way contact dances, as I did at a very wierd club this last Wednesday, I feel like a naughty schoolboy who is being punished by having his hands tied.
HOwever, in the event that I find myself accidentally in such a club in the future, I really will try to apply your prinicipals. After all, if I could truly enjoy one way contact dances, it would expand the universe of places at which I could have a good time.
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HOwever, in the event that I find myself accidentally in such a club in the future, I really will try to apply your prinicipals. After all, if I could truly enjoy one way contact dances, it would expand the universe of places at which I could have a good time.