The other day my CF and I and a couple of her dancer friends were sitting at a table in the club, sipping our favorite beverages. My CF says to her friends, "I can't take a guy up to VIP unless I'm a little drunk."
Does this explain why she always want me to buy her drinks?
Perhaps.
If she feels she needs to have her conscientiousness & feelings anesthetized by Alcohol to have "Sex" with a stranger or with you - well that speaks volumes about her and her feelings about what she is doing for a living.
She did say "a little drunk", not two sheets to the wind. For many, many men, they need a little liquid courage to approach civie gals at a regular bar. Does this mean that men who can't talk to women without alcohol have a problem?
@alucard “If she feels she needs to have her conscientiousness & feelings anesthetized by Alcohol to have "Sex" with a stranger or with you - well that speaks volumes about her and her feelings about what she is doing for a living.â€
so what does a crack whore having to take xanax to have sex with YOU say about you alucard?:
"She did say "a little drunk", not two sheets to the wind. For many, many men, they need a little liquid courage to approach civie gals at a regular bar. Does this mean that men who can't talk to women without alcohol have a problem?"
Hey, Aludowner, maybe YOU don't want alcohol,(couldn't hurt); but any woman that spends any time with YOU would no doubt have to be high or drunk. Horrible attitude you have.
Although I agree with Pabloantonio, I think flirting, SS and the whole game must become routine after a certain point for the dancers ( the drinking could become part of the routines as well rather than a help to loosen up).
The other reason could be much deeper. Many dancers look down upon themselves for choosing or landing in this profession and having such a life. Being intoxicated is a futile attempt to alter reality momentarily.
I imagine that the same lame jokes from every guy in the place could jade her outlook. I have had dancers sit with me to get away from guys they do not want to sit with. Yeh I know it is a good excuse to sit down and chat you up. I also know dancers that do not drink or do drugs. Takes all kinds.
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If she feels she needs to have her conscientiousness & feelings anesthetized by Alcohol to have "Sex" with a stranger or with you - well that speaks volumes about her and her feelings about what she is doing for a living.
so what does a crack whore having to take xanax to have sex with YOU say about you alucard?:
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“never ever ever on any date with a guy I have met on here(met a few, all except one were the shit!!!) Did I have to pop a xanexâ€
YES.
Stripper #1 (S1); I sometimes feel like I need a drink just to work here.
Stripper #2 (S2); I always have a few just so the guys don't look so bad.
Me; So I look bad?
S1; Oh, silly. We just want to play with you!
S2; And use your bod for our fun.
Me; Does that mean you've already had enough to drink that - I - look good?
S2; Not yet, but with a little help we'll get there.
(I bought another round of drinks)
S2; Now you really do look good!
Me; You know that's messed up?
S1; Don't worry, she's always messed up.
And yes we look better to them when they have had a few.
The other reason could be much deeper. Many dancers look down upon themselves for choosing or landing in this profession and having such a life. Being intoxicated is a futile attempt to alter reality momentarily.