Strippers who make OTC difficult
sflguy123
Florida
Last week I met a stripper at a dive club but she is very pretty and probably could work most clubs. We hit it off well. We talked about outside the club get together, she even asks me if i prefer incall or outcall. After the fact I thought to myself I never had a stripper use those terms, that's more of an escort thing(maybe she does that too). She texts me her number inside the club since I leave my phone in the car.
So yesterday I was supposed to see her. That morning she texts that her sister is in the hosiptal and wants to see me today instead. I've heard the sick relative thing a lot(mainly from escorts) but go with it and scheduled to see her at 1pm today. She even texted me last night(10pm) to confirm.
I text her at around 10:30am to confirm today. I don't hear back from her by 12pm so figure fuck it and off to the gym instead.
She texts me at 1:55pm that she just woke up and wanting to see me. I say at 3pm. Then she texts for directions and I reply and she replies she will be there soon. Next thing she texts that she had to run a couple of errands and wants to know what is the latest she can come over at.
At this point I bail and cancel and offer my 2 cents about her being inconsiderate etc.
Then she replies she is waiting for her ride(how she ran errands w/o a car I don't know).
I reply first a sister in the hospital, than sleeping to 2pm, than running errands, than waiting for driver, than on the way. Forget it.
But I am half nice about it while not being a totally pussy b/c she is really pretty. I don't like the driver part but know she lives with another stripper at the club and from talking to her they don't seem to have a car.
I'm venting here and others can share their experiences with being jerked around by a stripper.
So yesterday I was supposed to see her. That morning she texts that her sister is in the hosiptal and wants to see me today instead. I've heard the sick relative thing a lot(mainly from escorts) but go with it and scheduled to see her at 1pm today. She even texted me last night(10pm) to confirm.
I text her at around 10:30am to confirm today. I don't hear back from her by 12pm so figure fuck it and off to the gym instead.
She texts me at 1:55pm that she just woke up and wanting to see me. I say at 3pm. Then she texts for directions and I reply and she replies she will be there soon. Next thing she texts that she had to run a couple of errands and wants to know what is the latest she can come over at.
At this point I bail and cancel and offer my 2 cents about her being inconsiderate etc.
Then she replies she is waiting for her ride(how she ran errands w/o a car I don't know).
I reply first a sister in the hospital, than sleeping to 2pm, than running errands, than waiting for driver, than on the way. Forget it.
But I am half nice about it while not being a totally pussy b/c she is really pretty. I don't like the driver part but know she lives with another stripper at the club and from talking to her they don't seem to have a car.
I'm venting here and others can share their experiences with being jerked around by a stripper.
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I had one experience similar to the one you described. A dancer was due to meet me for lunch one day. We had set a day, time, and location to meet. I texted her to confirm a couple of hours ahead of time. No response from her. I arrived at the location at the agreed time, and still no sign of her or word from her. Then two hours later, I finally got a text from her saying, "I'm on my way, honey." By that time I was home (fifty miles away). I didn't let her know that. I never saw her or spent another dollar on her again.
Be prepared for letdowns and disappointment when dealing with strippers OTC. If you do go to meet her at a designated place, always have a plan B ready if you get stood up. I did that day, and it helped a lot. I went to another strip club in the area where we were due to meet.
45 min later still not picked up. Eventually called backup cabbie. Fully 3 hours past our arranged time my beauty shows up and texts me to come pay the cab driver. I'm happy to because she's so darn awesome. OTC with her was wonderful, as it was our previous OTC when the taxi made her only 2 hours late. I can't afford to give her a car, but sure wish I could.
When setting up OTC; one needs to accept there will be a high probability of a no, or very late, show-up.
It’s part of the equation and being well aware of it means one will not be overly disappointed when it doesn’t work out – go w/ it and if it works out; great – and if it doesn’t; then realize it’s an unfortunate part of the game & just go about ur business & try another time.
As some have commented on this subject on other threads; it’s often beneficial to have more than one OTC girl; if OTC is really ur thing and it’s not necessarily girl specific.
+ many are single moms with kids to look after
+ many may have an S.O. that they need to work around
+ many of them seem to have transportation issues making it harder “to keep appointmentsâ€
+ they often have odd schedules & b/w their odd schedules and other obligations (e.g. family/kids; etc.); it makes it harder for them to be reliable
All in all; the reality is that the custie is not the #1 priority for the dancer since they often have a lot of other stuff going on – it’s just the way it is.
Another told me we would meet at the club on Thursday and when I went to the club she wasn't there a no show. I called her the next morning and asked what happened to her. She said well you said Thursday. Today is Thursday. I said no...Today is Friday!
Guess she didn't have a calendar.
On the other hand I have one OTC that's never been late and really appreciates the extra attention. I have another that keeps blaming me for her forgetting cause I should know she's ADD and needs me to keep reminding her Geesh !