how do you go about getting a lap dance?
Renegade91
Tennessee
the particular club i visited tonight was one i had visited back in June, when i went in June, there was a "2 for $40" special where all the girls (and there were quite a few of them) descended on to the floor at once asking customers for dances, i ended up getting one of those, and shortly after, i ended up getting a VIP dance from a dancer who i wasn't all that interested in, but she was one of the most persisted i had ever met,
i hadn't went to this club since mainly because the chairs in the regular lap dance area aren't that comfortable and the only alternative is to get a VIP dance which is over $100 but i decided to give this club another chance today after i had arrived at the club i was originally planning to go to and found that the it was closed for the day shift today and wasn't opening until 6 (which was still about 40 minutes away) and this club happened to be close by so i decided to give it another chance, i figured: "well at least i won't have any trouble getting a lap dance there" but i was wrong,
there was no "2 for $40" special this time, one girl sat with me, and we talked for about 5 minutes, but then she said she had to take her drink back to the bar and she would be right back but she just went and started talking to another guy at the bar, the highlight of the night was when there was this really hot dancer on stage, i went to the stage and tipped her and we had some pretty good interaction, then i returned to my seat and she went and thanked me after she got off stage, and i said: "your welcome" and she said: "i'll be right back" and i said "ok" but she just disappeared for a few minutes and went and sat with another dancer who was sitting with another customer,
i tipped all ther girls i was interested in, and after they got off stage they would either disappear or they would go thank me, then disappear, or go sit with someone else, when each girl was on stage the DJ would say "she'll be available for VIP after she gets off stage so snatch her up" but i never saw a sing customer get a single dance the whole time i was there,
so whats the standard protocol in this situation? should i have just asked a girl for a dance when i went to tip her or when she went to thank me, or should i have just waited like i did, for a girl to sit down with me and ask if i wanted a dance?
i ultimately ended up leaving to club tonight without a private dance (that's a first for me) i guess the only good thing about that is i left with a full wallet, and can try again in a couple of weeks, maybe at a different club in that area, (if only i didn't have to drive so far to find a good club)
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You can't wait for them to make the first move, otherwise you'll do exactly what you did - walk out with a full wallet.
If you were sitting around talking to the dancers, they may have thought you didn't want any dances. Sometimes dancers make assumptions and are forgetful.
I sat down near the stage in one club and on an announced two for one, a dancer came over and asked me. I said ok. We went in the back and she thanked me for tipping her. I was thinking I didn't tip her even though I thought about it. I decided to say instead , you're welcome. Before she started she thanked two more times. I was thinking maybe she just likes me and is a bit drunk. If their assumption works in your favor, go with it. If not, change it.
Step 2: Explicitly ask.
I am just waiting on Dougster or Juice/Juice aliases to refer to the system to help this individual out.
I'm still at the strip club, sitting down, with my arm raised, waiting to get picked.
Honestly my approach is pretty simple. i have two:
1. I tip a girl on stage or a satalite stage and ask her to sit with me when she's done. She will almost always say yes, and if she doesnt say yes she will say she will when she is done with a customer. then it's a flip of the coin as to whether she remembers or not
2. if i see a girl walking the floor that i like and i see her coming my direction, i stare her right in the face.
those work for me usually
You still have that card, I hope - after all I vouched for you at our last meeting! ;)
Hmmm, looks like it's getting a little worn from being in my wallet; might have to get it laminated...
:)
If you're like me, and asking isn't really your thing, then try another club because that seems to be regular nation that club and your the squid of the group.