Is it wrong to get a lap dance from a friends wife

That would really depend on how good of a friend he is. If I wanted to keep him as a friend. I would look but not touch. Otherwise go for a blow job.

Not that close if a friend I'm not sure if extras would be on the menu but knowing me I'd probably try

If she's willing to give you lap dances or extras, why not? It's the business she's in.

If he is not that close a friend and she's selling lappers go for it. Going beyond lappers...well, if you go beyond lappers regularly you've gotten extras from girls with husbands before. Ask yourself if you'd feel bad doing this to your friend.

Like Shadow said. Skip the ld's and go straight for the bj's.

With so many dancers available why push your luck and risk having your friend kick your ass. I wouldn't do it.

If your friend knows (all of) what she's doing, not wrong.

If your friend doesn't know, it's a little wrong for you, and extremely wrong for her. She is the one who made marriage vows, not you.

Shit, if he really was my best friend, I'd already would've gotten private dances from her.

yes I have and extras were involved. She & her hubby are swingers

Go for it!

BTW, very cool question Fak15141.

I knew a co-worker that had a dancing wife. Never got, nor wood I get a dance with her. Just too weird to me.

Of course, it's not wrong, but it's probably going to feel awkward when it happens. To me, that scenario seems like the strip club version of breaking the 4th wall.

You can always ask her what her husband is ok with. Then if you want to stay friends with him, you could ask him separately what he is ok with his wife doing in the club. The two of them might talk about you though. Maybe not if she doesn't talk much about it.

Nahh, I'd just ask her the questions. Guy friends come and go. You can lie to your guy friend like she might be already. Or use the Vulcan exaggeration and not tell the whole truth. Did you get a bj? Well I wouldn't say yes if you did. Just say well she did get me excited when she sat on my lap. Then say a bj would be fun. Then if he brought it up, ask if he's ok with his wife going there. Otherwise, I'd say nothing.

Some people will lie lie saying they are ok with something as an example trying to get the facts out of your mouth. Police officers lie for example trying to get people say they have been drinking. They will smell alcohol in your car weeks after your last drink even if you never drank anything in your car and never set foot in a bar for weeks if they wonder if you've had something to drink. People lie all the time.

Never been close to this situation. Don't think its a line I want to cross with a friend.

I feel a little strange getting extras from any girl that I know to be married. One such dancer has moved from my fave club to one known for available extras. Her appearance makes her about a 9, but knowing she goes home to hubby and kids turns me off a bit. I've never been to her new club. It's much farther and VIP costs at least 250 for 20 minutes.