Advice sought: whether to contact dancer in advance about OTC
knight_errant
New Jersey
Would appreciate the serious sage wisdom and advice of the experienced crew hanging out on TUSCL on this issue.
Am traveling out of town for an overnight to a casino and plan to stop in -coming and going- at a somewhat nearby club that I frequent when I am in the area. A few dancers have given me their numbers, suggesting availability for OTC. I may be interested but am thinking if I text them ahead of time telling them I am going to be coming into the club, or more, interested in OTC, then aren't they just going to be looking at how to maximize their fiscal outcome? As opposed to me just showing up at the club and seeing if one of them is available and interested- more of a chance on availability, but less of a chance being fleeced, right? (One in particular hottie quoted me higher than average for ITC and I bit- because I was already in the room (I know, rookie mistake- but she was 9.5)
Thanks in advance for the serious replies.
Am traveling out of town for an overnight to a casino and plan to stop in -coming and going- at a somewhat nearby club that I frequent when I am in the area. A few dancers have given me their numbers, suggesting availability for OTC. I may be interested but am thinking if I text them ahead of time telling them I am going to be coming into the club, or more, interested in OTC, then aren't they just going to be looking at how to maximize their fiscal outcome? As opposed to me just showing up at the club and seeing if one of them is available and interested- more of a chance on availability, but less of a chance being fleeced, right? (One in particular hottie quoted me higher than average for ITC and I bit- because I was already in the room (I know, rookie mistake- but she was 9.5)
Thanks in advance for the serious replies.
12 comments
Tell your C/F you're coming and see what she says. If it's a vague, "Maybe I'm free", pass on her and call someone else.
ROBs will try to ROB you whether it’s ahead of time or JIT