Advice sought: whether to contact dancer in advance about OTC

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knight_errant
New Jersey
Would appreciate the serious sage wisdom and advice of the experienced crew hanging out on TUSCL on this issue.

Am traveling out of town for an overnight to a casino and plan to stop in -coming and going- at a somewhat nearby club that I frequent when I am in the area. A few dancers have given me their numbers, suggesting availability for OTC. I may be interested but am thinking if I text them ahead of time telling them I am going to be coming into the club, or more, interested in OTC, then aren't they just going to be looking at how to maximize their fiscal outcome? As opposed to me just showing up at the club and seeing if one of them is available and interested- more of a chance on availability, but less of a chance being fleeced, right? (One in particular hottie quoted me higher than average for ITC and I bit- because I was already in the room (I know, rookie mistake- but she was 9.5)

Thanks in advance for the serious replies.

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crazyjoe
11 years ago
Contact them ahead of time and make sure your favorite is available
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shadowcat
11 years ago
I'm no expert but if it were me, I would try to set something up in advance. You have nothing to lose by trying and you still have a back up plan of hitting the club if your phone calls don't pan out.
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3LeggedMan
11 years ago
If you phone ahead you might avoid hours of waiting for the girl to finish her shift. She may be able to meet you at a time and place of your choosing. I'd call.
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SlickSpic
11 years ago
Damn it. Once again, the words have been taken out of my mouth. Good advice by the Threeleggedman about her shift.
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Alucard
11 years ago
In any scenario, IMHO the dancer is out to maximize her fiscal outcome. Arranging an OTC with a willing dancer is a better choice than rolling the dice on ITC availability or a long wait. Depends on your patience & willingness to gamble on availability.
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rockstar666
11 years ago
I always plan ahead when I can. I get enough surprises with flaky dancers breaking dates as it is so letting them know you're coming can only help. I can't imagine just showing up and hoping she's free after her shift,and you never know if her schedule changed.

Tell your C/F you're coming and see what she says. If it's a vague, "Maybe I'm free", pass on her and call someone else.
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tumblingdice
11 years ago
Alucramp said dice.
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knight_errant
11 years ago
Thanks...good stuff from guys who have spent enough to know ;-)
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3LeggedMan
11 years ago
I even contact my fave girls before I see them ITC. I've had them tell me that they would have stayed home if they didn't know I was coming in.
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inno123
11 years ago
Agree with others. If there is one particular girl then you want to be sure her schedule is clear. If she is just your main of several possibilities at the club then it would be a different story.
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SoonerSam
11 years ago
Yeah, I agree. Why wait? If a dancer tries to fleece you for OTC when planning ahead. then politely decline and seek service elsewhere. And as has already been stated, your backup plan is ITC. There's really no downside to planning ahead and plenty of upside. I always make plans well ahead of schedule, and I sometimes still get a girl flake out on me and cancel.
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Papi_Chulo
11 years ago
If they are going to fleece you; I don’t see why it would make a difference whether it was on the spur of the moment or planning ahead of time.

ROBs will try to ROB you whether it’s ahead of time or JIT
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