I'm pasting a response to ranukam because I believe it is worth discussing. Every month or so there are calls for moderation. We've recently had a shit storm because of Alucard(dot). Personally, I thought it was funny and meant in jest. I'm sure Alucard doesn't agree that it was meant in jest and for that reason I think it was also cruel. Personally, I wouldn't have done it BECAUSE it won't be received as a joke. Part of the fun for me is believing that those I have "rivalries" with aren't taking things TOO seriously. Personally, I would respond to a polite PM saying "back off" as long as:
- My "rival" backed off on me. -and-
- My "rival" respected my right to disagree and post threads (and post in the same thread) WITHOUT PERSONAL ATTACKS.
I want to stress this...I will not attack anybody who politely says "back off" as long as they also follow the above. I hardly feel the two points above are unreasonable.
Here is my reply to ranukam.:
Ranukam...I don't know if I'm on your ignore list but I'm going to reply with something serious. I really do think people can self moderate. In my opinion, the biggest problem is when people who SUPPOSEDLY don't like joke threads invade joke threads. Why do people do that? It accomplishes nothing. The folks who are joking continue to joke but now they have a target. It encourages more of the same kind of behavior that these folks CLAIM to dislike.
I think the folks like Bonesbrother and 23cambyman are the real trolls. I suspect they like all the shit they stir up. I think you're asking a serious question so I'm not putting you in this category. I will, however, suggest a solution:
-
If you genuinely don't like something IGNORE IT. And by that I mean REALLY IGNORE IT. Don't bitch about it or hurl insults or tell people they are on your ignore list. Those who do that are either stupid or they are trying to get a rise out of their opponents. I admit that I'm trying to get a rise out of folks like Tittyfag. IF he actually dislikes it he could do one of two things: send a polite PM asking me to stop (I would do so IF he also disengaged) -or- simply disengage. He does neither. So I conclude he likes the sparring.
-
Organize the posts by "Last Comment". The serious threads come to the top if folks like them. The GOOD joke theads also come to the top. Combine this tactic with ignore an 95% of the problems disappear. But remember, ignore only works if your ACTUALLY IGNORE people!
Why wouldn't this work?


^^ It works for me. I think having a moderator would be a bigger distraction than the trolls.