Shadowcat & myself know of a dancer at out favorite SC who has cooled off in what she will & won't do & now she wants to raise her 2 for 1 price on top of that. How do you handle this situation: Talk to her only but no more dances or just ignore her altogether whenever you go to the club & she's there. My inclination is to be friendly but turn down dance offers. Thoughts?
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This dancer has found somebody who is spending big $$ on her so the ones that brung her to the dances so to speak are blase now.
A lot of dancers "cool off" when they have a new boyfriend or when they are approaching burn-out and are just sick of looking at men. Sometimes they will cool off if they think they have you locked-in and can get away with it. I have enough favs that I would probably just dump a girl who tried to raise her prices on me. One fav of mine charges $20 more for nude dances to her new customers but still charges me the same price she always has. I like her but I'm sure she knows I would never pay the higher price.
A fellow dancer of the cooled off dancer told me that the cooled off dancer told her she was 2 weeks late with her period but I don't know how long ago she told her that. A 9 month visit back home now makes sense but why go out of the country to have the baby?
Shadowcat: You're implying she's pregnant?
I wondered about that myself.
If you still want dances from her, ask her what's up. Otherwise, blow her off.
Trust your inclination, although she'll ignore you in short order, removing any situation in need of handling.
Ignoring her sounds good to me. Dancers are like busses--if you miss one, anther will come right behind her (My mother gave me that advice at 15 about women, but I think it also applies here).
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