I was molested and harassed in a strip club today.
When I sat down at my table I saw on stage a black dancer named Lola who I haven't seen in a couple years. Sometimes I used to get dances from her because she had big boobs. But in the past 2 years her boobs have become even bigger, her waist has thickened, and her ass has grown huge. Not really my type (although I think I know somebody who would enjoy her).
Lola waved at me from the stage, and stopped by to chat for a few minutes, stroking me on the thigh. During the next few hours, every time Lola walked by, whether my CF was with me or not, she touched me somewhere, and 4 or 5 times she tweaked my nipple through my shirt. I found the nipple tweaking too much--not sexy and a little painful. I did not complain but I did not like her unwanted attention. I think I got some insight into how women feel when a man harasses them.
Have any of you dudes been molested and harassed?
I get the "handshake" from time to time when a dancer tries to sell me private dances. Never turned on by that, and felt uneasy. I feel that it is too intimate to feel one's genitals in public, even in a strip club.
I am ok with nipple playing (only in clubs of course) as long as they don't hurt me, but it probably won't turn me on as well.