Ive got a girl who I've known for a little while. We've gone out to dinner & such 3 times, but never OTC and never paid for my time. Occasionally I get a weird text asking for 20 bucks. I've sent it to her because its very rare and we've hung out enough that its no big deal to me.
I'm a sucker for a phones pitch from a stripper. Last week I got a text at 11:30 telling me she had only made $20 that night and asking if I could forward her a little before our next date. I Western Unioned her $200. She later told me she was hoping for $50. A fool and his money....
My old ATF once called me and asked me to meet her at the supermarket because she was out of money and food. I bought her $25 worth of food so she could make dinner for herself and her son (and her boyfriend?)
Take advantage of this. I recently had a dancer text me for 50 bucks so she could buy gas, she promised to "make it worth my while" I me up with her later to give her the money. cheapest OTC i've ever had lol.
I've seen less of this than many of you as my clubbing activities are a bit more spread out, but in the couple of instances where this happened to me I refused. In one of those instances, I countered by offering her an "earning opportunity." ;) I only pay for services rendered.
Having said all of this, after spending more time in a local club over the last few years (in addition to my customary road clubs) and finally going through a few local "favs" (a few years ago I laughed at this concept), I now understand more how this can happen.
But, IMHO, rewarding her for dialing for $$, without the expectation of provided services, sets a bad precedent. I agree with others who say that she'll be asking for more tomorrow. When I deal with dancers OTC, I'm looking for a p4p girl, not a faux GF.
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then if she called all her patrons for $20, she would get enough crack for a whole week!
did u believe her? and did u give her?
Most likely for drugs.
Tell her NO, unless you are getting "Services" in return immediately. LOL
Having said all of this, after spending more time in a local club over the last few years (in addition to my customary road clubs) and finally going through a few local "favs" (a few years ago I laughed at this concept), I now understand more how this can happen.
But, IMHO, rewarding her for dialing for $$, without the expectation of provided services, sets a bad precedent. I agree with others who say that she'll be asking for more tomorrow. When I deal with dancers OTC, I'm looking for a p4p girl, not a faux GF.