Ive got a girl who I've known for a little while. We've gone out to dinner & such 3 times, but never OTC and never paid for my time. Occasionally I get a weird text asking for 20 bucks. I've sent it to her because its very rare and we've hung out enough that its no big deal to me.
"A small crack rock is $20... Please don't ask how I know this..."
Most likely for drugs.
Tell her NO, unless you are getting "Services" in return immediately. LOL
I'm a sucker for a phones pitch from a stripper. Last week I got a text at 11:30 telling me she had only made $20 that night and asking if I could forward her a little before our next date. I Western Unioned her $200. She later told me she was hoping for $50. A fool and his money....
My old ATF once called me and asked me to meet her at the supermarket because she was out of money and food. I bought her $25 worth of food so she could make dinner for herself and her son (and her boyfriend?)
Take advantage of this. I recently had a dancer text me for 50 bucks so she could buy gas, she promised to "make it worth my while" I me up with her later to give her the money. cheapest OTC i've ever had lol.
I've seen less of this than many of you as my clubbing activities are a bit more spread out, but in the couple of instances where this happened to me I refused. In one of those instances, I countered by offering her an "earning opportunity." ;) I only pay for services rendered.
Having said all of this, after spending more time in a local club over the last few years (in addition to my customary road clubs) and finally going through a few local "favs" (a few years ago I laughed at this concept), I now understand more how this can happen.
But, IMHO, rewarding her for dialing for $$, without the expectation of provided services, sets a bad precedent. I agree with others who say that she'll be asking for more tomorrow. When I deal with dancers OTC, I'm looking for a p4p girl, not a faux GF.
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