All stripper boy friends are losers - Fact or myth.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
There has been a lot of talk lately and a lot of comments in reviews about dancer quality going down the shitter. So where are they all going. Apparently they are not showing up at other clubs. Not likely that they graduated from College or won the lotto.
What to me appears to be is that someone is taking care of them financially. There might be a few sugar daddies out there but the majority appear to have husbands or boy friends that are taking care of them.
One favorite told me last week that she doesn't work much any more because her boy friend is paying most of her bills.
What to me appears to be is that someone is taking care of them financially. There might be a few sugar daddies out there but the majority appear to have husbands or boy friends that are taking care of them.
One favorite told me last week that she doesn't work much any more because her boy friend is paying most of her bills.
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I have to agree with Rell, I've been a stripper boyfriend myself a few times and I wouldn't call myself a loser :) 80% of them being losers sounds about right. If the boyfriend is paying her bills he is a NBA player, NFL player, rapper or drug dealer.
A stripper may tell you about how great her boyfriend is. But ask her about her ex's and you'll hear nothing but complaints about the drug-addicted, cheating, lazy bastards who never pay child support. And the current boyfriend will be an ex soon.
I had an acquaintance who dated a smoking hot stripper. I didn't know him really well and he was no rocket scientist but he was a professional fire fighter and owned a piece of a grading company. I wouldn't call him a loser.
"Seriously? I've been sleeping an hour after working at a club everyday this week so we could move in this apartment...and when thomas wake up my bd wanna be like "well, get up with him!" Nigga!! You live bill free!! I buy you weee squares put a roof over your head and food in ya stomach! Since I'm tge working one YOU get your ass up n let me rest up so I can move all our shit today & then work tonight. Man, some of you men nowadays. Look I WANT you, but please believe I don't NEED you"
I have realized being black has helped me tremendously in my ability to get free stripper pussy (most strippers are in relationships with black guys), but it's bittersweet because most of the black guys they mess around with are drug dealers, felons, unemployed etc. So it's really not a good look for the black community in general.
Could be real. But could be stripper shit.
" Does that make me a loser?"
Maybe, maybe not. If you believe they want to date you and it's just SS...
There's a girl I work with who's married to an ex-carnie (for 10 years now) and they seem happy as crazy circus clams.
There are definitely dancers that date shitty dudes, but for the most part people date within their socioeconomic circle anyway and I think that accounts for a lot of it.
As for drug dealers all being terrible people, well, get it how you live. I know a lot of you don't like to hear this, but prostitution is also illegal ;)
Doctors still doing alright overall, but typically have huge student loans to pay off when they graduate. A friend's sister had $200k in loans to pay off when she graduated. Lawyers are in a similar boat - I have a friend who was a lawyer in a top firm on the east coast and she was still paying away her student loan into her late 30s.
Good point. I've always said the lifestyle of a dancers doesn't seem conducive to a relationship. Unemployment would certainly rectify that problem.
LMFAO. Yeah, they all are. Claiming to be a rapper doesn't make one a "musician". Just an excuse not to work.
He played around clubs in Michigan but he paid the clubs for the "privilege" to perform. Never got paid a dime. Lol
Sometimes it because of their character, sometimes its because their dancer girlfriend/wife is having sex with guys on the side.
Either way, everybody loses at this game.
Fact, IMO.
"The tale concerns a shepherd boy who repeatedly tricks nearby villagers into thinking a wolf is attacking his flock. When a wolf actually does appear, the villagers do not believe the boy's cries for help, and the flock is destroyed. The moral at the end of the story shows that this is how liars are not rewarded: even if they tell the truth, no one believes them'
By continuingly "Crying Wolf" about so many people, who in the end will ever actually believe anything you say Dougster.
ar (to use a doubly secret code he is so fond of).
It's what caused him to get smacked around alot when he was young, and set him down the road to what he is today.