spending habit
RT2000
If anyone read my earlier discussion will know that I wad infatuated with this one dancer awhile ago. Anyway, I finally got her attention by given her a $40 tip to make up for N earlier small VIP tip. Since then, everytime I went to the club, she will make a point of dropping by and offer to dance for me immediately. I started to do VIP with her exclusively lately. I spent about 1k on her over the course of a weekend. This include a 30 min VIP tip to her per day. Mileage is good but no FS. Not really what I looking for. Oh, I visit the club a bout once a month. Here is a couple of question I like to ask the group.
1) Is my spending alot for the dancer? Coz it seem that she really paid attention to my feeling when I'm at the club. This is one of the COI club.
2) although I know she want to keep me as a customer, she doesn't really sit with me at the club. After our VIP, she would tell me that she is going to the dressing room to freshen up and she'll be gone for an hour or so. In the beginning, she would apologizes for taking so long. I told always told her it's ok since I want to watch the stage show and kill some time. I guess I don't understand what can one do I the dressing room for hours on end. I don't see her on the dance floor asking for dance while I'm at the club anymore. It seem like I'm her only customer when I'm in the club but she don't sit with me. Is that unusual?
3)Is tipping the price of a 30 min VIP alot for a night of fun in the VIP area? Sometime it's one VIP a night some time it 2 or 3 a night. The tip is about the same everytime.
Hoping to get some insight for the experience clubbers. Please no spam thanks
1) Is my spending alot for the dancer? Coz it seem that she really paid attention to my feeling when I'm at the club. This is one of the COI club.
2) although I know she want to keep me as a customer, she doesn't really sit with me at the club. After our VIP, she would tell me that she is going to the dressing room to freshen up and she'll be gone for an hour or so. In the beginning, she would apologizes for taking so long. I told always told her it's ok since I want to watch the stage show and kill some time. I guess I don't understand what can one do I the dressing room for hours on end. I don't see her on the dance floor asking for dance while I'm at the club anymore. It seem like I'm her only customer when I'm in the club but she don't sit with me. Is that unusual?
3)Is tipping the price of a 30 min VIP alot for a night of fun in the VIP area? Sometime it's one VIP a night some time it 2 or 3 a night. The tip is about the same everytime.
Hoping to get some insight for the experience clubbers. Please no spam thanks
17 comments
Find another attractive dancer in the club and start spending your time and money on her. She may appreciate you more, and the first dancer will have an incentive to treat you better. Competition is wondrous for consumers.
I've never been to COI clubs, but I have read you can expect high mileage and extras. In Detroit, if I spent $1000 on a dancer over a weekend, I would expect 3 BJ, 2 FS, and 1 three-way.
And a partridge in a pear tree????
In general, giving money to a stripper for anything that won't happen immediately upon payment is a long shot.
Welcome to the club, where common sense is seldom seen, where grown men act like 18 year-old boys, and everyone thinks with their dick.
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Jack: it sound like I'm overspend compare to Detroit standard.
ilbbaicnl: infatuated yes. But have no delusion of anything more than a customer & dancer interaction.
rickdugan: I do feel like a human ATM. Only thing is that if I call, I know she'll come running. Still doesn't make it any better. Anyway, we are all human ATM in the club.
pabloantonio: not sure how to react to joining the PL club.
Can’t understand why you are paying her so much money – you should be able to get anything you want for way less.
If you are by any shape or form thinking that paying her lots of money will get her to like you or win her over, the opposite will most likely happen – she will respect you even less and see you as a professional PL at how much $$$ you are spending on her w/o her not even giving you her time (even less her pussy).
You shouldn’t have to spend that kind of $$$ to get what you want in a SC – and you will not get what you want no matter how much $$$ you spend if what you want is her liking/accepting you.
Some guys will ditch a dancer they like because they find out she'll provide the same services to others for less, or she's actually supporting some leech guy who's doing her. To me, that's just another way of being a PL. Because you're caring about someone's opinion of you when you have no reason to respect their opinion. Other than the fact they give you a boner.
So you say that you are infatuated with her....what is it that you really want from her? A girlfriend? A fuckbuddy? Just someone to give you a GFE?
for your other question. I'm not sure but the is something about her that got to me. She is not the type of women I'm attract to outside the club. Girlfriend is a definely NO. Too much drama in my life already to add her to it. Fuckbuddy is not my ultimate goal but won't decline if offered. I do get the GFE in the VIP room but that is all. I guess that a good thing coz I can get my fantasy without the string attach.
No RT, not all of us are human ATMs in the clubs. Some of us harbor our resources and direct our spending towards high ROI activities. It is a function of discipline, which includes learning to say no to things that we do not want and patiently biding our time as we seek out what we DO want.
When I visit a club, I am always prepared to spend, but that doesn't mean that I will. Whether my spending is measured in multiple Benjamins or less than one is entirely a function of what is available vs. what I am seeking.
The best position to be in is when a girl knows you have money, but also realizes that she has to render legitimate services in order to get it from you. So you don't have the entirely hide the fact that you have funds available, but you do have to make it clear that you won't part with it too easily.