spending habit

17 comments

• jackslash

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  11 years ago

  My opinion is that you're spending too much and not getting enough in return. If you were dining at an expensive restaurant and did not receive delicious food and excellent service, wouldn't you go elsewhere? Find another attractive dancer in the club and start spending your time and money on her. She may appreciate you more, and the first dancer will have an incentive to treat you better. Competition is wondrous for consumers. I've never been to COI clubs, but I have read you can expect high mileage and extras. In Detroit, if I spent $1000 on a dancer over a weekend, I would expect 3 BJ, 2 FS, and 1 three-way.
• Clubber

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  11 years ago

  jack, And a partridge in a pear tree????
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  Big tips to a dancer you are horny for is a situation that has a good chance to work out well for you. Big tips to a dancer that you are truly infatuated with is a riskier investment than the options market, if the idea is get her interested in more than your wallet. In general, giving money to a stripper for anything that won't happen immediately upon payment is a long shot.
• rickdugan

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  11 years ago

  You are spending way too much for way too little. Right now you are just a human ATM, waiting for her to decide when to come around and take your money from you.
• pabloantonio

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  11 years ago

  RT2000, you are now officially a PL. Welcome to the club, where common sense is seldom seen, where grown men act like 18 year-old boys, and everyone thinks with their dick. Ask FOUNDER for your official certificate of membership.
• RT2000

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  11 years ago

  Thanks everyone for the comment. Jack: it sound like I'm overspend compare to Detroit standard. ilbbaicnl: infatuated yes. But have no delusion of anything more than a customer & dancer interaction. rickdugan: I do feel like a human ATM. Only thing is that if I call, I know she'll come running. Still doesn't make it any better. Anyway, we are all human ATM in the club. pabloantonio: not sure how to react to joining the PL club.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  Yes you aren't getting enough return on investment. Need more in the VIP and more time sitting with you.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  You are getting played or more precisely it seems you are playing yourself. Can’t understand why you are paying her so much money – you should be able to get anything you want for way less. If you are by any shape or form thinking that paying her lots of money will get her to like you or win her over, the opposite will most likely happen – she will respect you even less and see you as a professional PL at how much $$$ you are spending on her w/o her not even giving you her time (even less her pussy). You shouldn’t have to spend that kind of $$$ to get what you want in a SC – and you will not get what you want no matter how much $$$ you spend if what you want is her liking/accepting you.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  BTW – all that time in the dressing room may be all your $$$ going up her nose (i.e. doing drugs). Not all strippers do them but many many do.
• gatorfan

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  11 years ago

  Clubber which partridge Danny Bonaducci?
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  PL means you think money can make stripper think you're something more than a customer. Sounds like you are not making this mistake. If you can spend the same money on porn, other girls, etc. and get more satisfaction, then yes, you're wasting your money. Only you know what it's worth to you. Some guys will ditch a dancer they like because they find out she'll provide the same services to others for less, or she's actually supporting some leech guy who's doing her. To me, that's just another way of being a PL. Because you're caring about someone's opinion of you when you have no reason to respect their opinion. Other than the fact they give you a boner.
• lopaw

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  11 years ago

  The fact that she's not sitting with you after you've dropper buckets of money on her speaks volumes. If she was into you or considered you as anything more than an ATM she would at least sit with you, especially if there are few other customers in the place. So you say that you are infatuated with her....what is it that you really want from her? A girlfriend? A fuckbuddy? Just someone to give you a GFE?
• RT2000

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  11 years ago

  Lopaw: you hit it on the head. I know I'm a customer to her but just not sure why she not progressive as other describe their regular. I guess she know that I only get dance from her when I'm there. I only goes to the club on the weekend at night and the club is always busy with lot of customers. As stated above, she stayed in the dressing room all the time until it time for us to get a other dance. I don't see her on the floor asking for dances while I'm there unless I told her I'm done for the night. for your other question. I'm not sure but the is something about her that got to me. She is not the type of women I'm attract to outside the club. Girlfriend is a definely NO. Too much drama in my life already to add her to it. Fuckbuddy is not my ultimate goal but won't decline if offered. I do get the GFE in the VIP room but that is all. I guess that a good thing coz I can get my fantasy without the string attach.
• jestrite50

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  11 years ago

  Sometimes you have to just come out and tell a girl what you expect for your money. I don't pay anywhere near that much for a girl but I tell them basically if they want dances from me or VIP's they have to sit with me. If they take off and another girl sits down; oh well: then the new girl gets a chance at my money. I don't save seats. I have found by telling them this upfront they understand and I get the attention I want and deserve for my money. Its just "good customer service".
• gsv

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  11 years ago

  Since this is COI where the mileage is meant to be quite good, it sounds like you are not getting what you should for your investment. Drop this dancer before you get any more infatuated with her than you already are. Seek another dancer who gives more bang for the buck.
• rickdugan

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  11 years ago

  "Anyway, we are all human ATM in the club." No RT, not all of us are human ATMs in the clubs. Some of us harbor our resources and direct our spending towards high ROI activities. It is a function of discipline, which includes learning to say no to things that we do not want and patiently biding our time as we seek out what we DO want. When I visit a club, I am always prepared to spend, but that doesn't mean that I will. Whether my spending is measured in multiple Benjamins or less than one is entirely a function of what is available vs. what I am seeking.
• gsv

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  11 years ago

  rickdugan has it right. When I started out clubbing, it was much harder to have that kind of discipline, and I can completely relate to how once you know a girl, it's hard to say no to her for dances/VIP as it almost appears. But you have to man up and do it. The best position to be in is when a girl knows you have money, but also realizes that she has to render legitimate services in order to get it from you. So you don't have the entirely hide the fact that you have funds available, but you do have to make it clear that you won't part with it too easily.