Kissing is NOT ALLOWED, ATMS and eyes

12/15/2012 9:33:06 AM

So a while ago, as a leave a very special private dance 30+ minutes long, we end and we return to our original state prior to starting the dance (clothes on and all). She hugs me tight and that already confuses the hell out of me. Then she goes and tries to kiss me. In my head I'm spazzing out, thinking what the hell why is this broad trying to kiss me. Not wanting to be rude but DEFINETELY not wanting to kiss the bitch, I give her a very "light" peck on the cheek (more like cheek to cheek and less lips to cheek) and then she had a strange look on her face. Wasn't sure whether it was out of confusion or just depression. Personally I wanted to just say:

"BYOTCH don't kiss me, I don't noe where does lips been, sucking on dick and shyit. I'll pimp smack yo azz, backhanded and shyznits"

Why do most of you guys enjoy that shit? You know that broad of a stripper was probably sucking some mean dick not even 10 minutes ago bareback if the price is right (and if you dick sucking goes on in your upscale club, then its DEFINTETLY bareback). She could have the clap on her lips or hepititas B (yeah it got that wacky). I really would like to understand better.

Also, ever been to a club where the surcharge for their ATMS is $10-30. Anyone ever actually thought about USING those ATMS instead of simply running outside and going to your local bank ATM (or $0.99 ATM machines). I was tempted just because I didn't want to run all the way to my bank ATM but the surcharge doesn't seem worth it at all.

Lastly when you getting your dick sucked gentlemen, you ever had the girl look up at you while she does it. I get it all the time, and I USUALLY want to look away, but I'm just too prideful and stare right back at her until she looks back down again. Why do females do that? looking up at you and shit. Do they think your forehead gonna procure some kind of dick out of it or something (phew, never had to write the D word so many times in one post).

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georgmicrodong

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12 years ago

I don't understand the kissing thing, either. I mean, if she's sucking mine, she's sucking somebody else's, and the likelihood that some other PL is as anal retentive about using rubbers as I am seems smaller than my dick.

As for looking up at you while she's going down, lots of guys seem to think that's sexy, including me.

Estafador

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12 years ago

I only find it sexy if they have nice clear eyes and not looking depressed and such. Otherwise it can get weird.

georgmicrodong

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12 years ago

Yeah, if she's got that "I'm about to bite through your dick" look in her eyes, not so sexy.

Clackport

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12 years ago

Bro, I love kissing hot strippers. It might be different in New York, but here in Portland extras don't happen ITC (OTC is definitely on the table though) so I don't have to worry if she sucked another dude's dick 10 minutes earlier. I never initiate the kissing, it's always them. If a 8, 9, or 10 wants to kiss me I'm not gonna stop her. But yeah if she's ain't that good looking I won't put my lips anywhere near her.

jester214

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12 years ago

I too prefer no kissing. Occasionally they've caught me off guard during a lap dance.

gsv

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12 years ago

I'm with ranukam, and no it's not very different in New York. Extras are not common here at all, unless you're in a shadier joint. In Manhattan, when extras do happen, they cost mid to high $xxx, or even $xxxx, so it's not frequent.

I'll kiss almost any hot stripper that works in Manhattan if the moment is right.

gsv

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12 years ago

Oh btw quick tip on ATMs. If you have an online bank account, such as with Charles Schwabb or Ally Bank, you can technically get refunded for all ATM fees. Even at strip clubs, as far as I know.

I still like to avoid strip club ATMs, but you can actually get around the fee.

Estafador

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12 years ago

Yes because one bank just isn't enough for me.

Dougster

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12 years ago

DFK #2 favorite activity with strippers, second only to FS! (And, IME, if they DFK you, FS is a given, thought might need to be OTC.)

And, no, don't even think of all the action those orifices have taken or all who have been there before you. That'll just get you down the drain.

rh48hr

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12 years ago

I have to agree that when they look up while giving a blowjob is kind of sexy.

shadowcat

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12 years ago

I think that they look up at you either because they adore you or because they are checking your facial expression to see if you are about to cum.

Dougster

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12 years ago

Highest ATM fee I can remember is $7. I always try to have ample cash on hand, so I don't need to bother. (The new ATMs which can count cash are great, so if you withdraw too much, just put it back in afterward and your account is instantly credited.)

But, yeah, I wouldn't pay that much just on principle.

RossVa

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12 years ago

My fav club, the Inner Room, Cocoa Beach, Fl, will, although they have an ATM in the club that charges like an $8 transaction fee, give you cash with no extra fee from your credit card at the bar.

jerikson40

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12 years ago

I dunno, there are some guys here who have a long fucking list of requirements for any sort of interaction with a woman. Geezus dudes, lighten up and enjoy life.

No kissing. Only straight sex with penetration, anything else is for losers. No handjobs, that's lame. Real men only do penetration. And don't look at me like that. It's weird. And on and on...

Holy crap dude, you need to re-think your approach to life.

Steffy, do you actually squeak when you walk?

Ermita_Nights

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12 years ago

ATM at Landing Strip is I think $25. I don't think anyone plans on using one of these. They are there for PLs who can't manage their cash.

COclubber

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12 years ago

I love the guys who brag about DFK and BBBJ at the same time. Really? dumbasses.

harrydave

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12 years ago

@Estafador - well, she likes you, for whatever reason; maybe it's your movie star good looks, or maybe your crotch doesn't smell like a swamp, who knows. For most women, kissing is intimate; more intimate than dick sucking, evidently.

HowdyPilgrims

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12 years ago

I don't go to clubs with VIP rooms known for extras so if the babe wants to kiss me I pucker up pilgrim!
Besides, how u know your gf that just came home from "shopping" and give you a smooch wasn't actually at the other guy's place smoking his pole? Everything's a risk.

lopaw

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12 years ago

@Estafador - FWIW some girls do that "look up" thing when they're eating pussy, too. Don't know why. It kinda creeps me out sometimes, especially when they intently stare. When I'm DATY I don't do the "look up" thing....I prefer to be staring at the juicy pussy in front of me.

Estafador

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12 years ago

I'm not that critical on requirements. If they give me a handjob, as long as they not trying to charge me, idk. But to not set yourself up with SOME guidelines is just waaaay too open. You may have a tgood time with anything with a hole between her legs, but there are COSTS to your rulefree adventure time. Anyway, I guess checking to see if I cum would make sense. Though everyone makes a different expression when they cum and for me, girls NEVER know unless I become placid (bjs are too good to give up just because you came).

Howdy: good point, good point. But with a girlfriend your more open to finding out whether she really was shopping or sucking.

Hah didn't know even rich people avoided that machine

jerikson40

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12 years ago

Dude, if you're gonna worry about swapping some other guys sperm in your mouth from a kiss, then you'd better not think about all the other stuff you can come in contact with in a club.

Like the old ugly guy who came on her tits, then she gives you a lapdance and brushes her nipples on your lips. Dude, you just ate some old guy's sperm.

Or the shit (literally) you get on your hands when you're in any public bathroom, and unknowingly touch your mouth or something that goes in your mouth. Dude, you just ate some other guys crap.

The list goes on and on and on. And if you really thought about it, you'd probably live in a plastic bag and never leave the house.

Look at it this way: if you accept the fact that you're gonna come in contact with all that nasty shit, and just let it happen and enjoy life, then you're kinda doing yourself a service. You're building up your tolerance. You're training your immune system to handle the day to day crap. And if you didn't do that, and suddenly got some guy's sperm on your lips, it would probably kill you.

Revo

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12 years ago

I think most people would be amazed at all of the contaminants that they come in contact with every day. Let alone in a strip club. Just try to be clean, wash your hands several times a day and you should be ok.

As for ATMs and fees. I have several bank accounts none with the big banks. And my e banks reimburse for my ATM fees. Such as Schwab bank and Everbank. Once you use these banks you will never go back to the ripoff mega banks.

I probably save over $1000 per year in assorted junk fees.. But I do a lot of banking.

Alucard

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12 years ago

I find it interesting that people seem to have an issue with the other person looking at their eyes during oral sex or looking at the eyes of the person receiving oral sex. Are you trying to depersonalize the experience by not looking &/or staring or being looked at? I want any sex act to be as personalized as possible, NOT depersonalized. Curious!

Dougster

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12 years ago

Do people with as many mental problems as you have still count as people alutard?

Doc_Holliday

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12 years ago

Estafador, it's a succubus thing. She's trying to swallow your soul.

sclvr5005

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12 years ago

Alucard
I think that it is exactly that- depersonalisation. When I am with a person that I have deep feelings for, looking into her eyes and her into mine can be very cathartic. But in a strip club with a virtual stranger I don't want that type of intimacy.

Alucard

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12 years ago

Would be cheaper to use your hand then. Sex with another person IS PERSONAL!!!

Dougster

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12 years ago

You think the whores you pay for sex think it's personal and don't try to depersonalize you, alutard? (making the huge, but probably wrong assumption, that you can even be said to be a person at all) if you think that you are even stupider than I thought, and believe you were right next to "couldn't be dumber " as it was.

sclvr5005

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12 years ago

That very much depends on the person, Alucard.

Alucard

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12 years ago

People can disconnect emotional and intellectual, but when another person stimulates your sexual organs or enters your body that's personal.

Our culture needs more PERSONAL interaction, face-to-Face, eyes-to-eyes and skin-to-skin - NOT less. Too many of us "hide" behind cell phone texting, Internet forums, etc.

Dougster is a Prime example. Would he say the things he says here to another person on the street. I am guessing not, but you you never know, he just might.

Dougster

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12 years ago

I'd say it to you, alutard. What would you do about it? Throw a fit?

sclvr5005

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12 years ago

Alucard- if I'm getting head from a stripper that I don't know or care about, and she certainly doesn't give a shit about me, how can that be personalized? It's a business transaction plain and simple.

Dougster

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12 years ago

Would love to see a 59 y/o geezer like you with CAD and you numerous mental problems spazz out in person because I called some stripper a whore. Would totally make my day. Careful they probably haul you off to the holding tank though.

Alucard

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12 years ago

sclvr5005 why bother getting head from from a living human if you don't see it as some degree of an interpersonal interaction. Why not use a machine to stimulate your cock or use your hand? You can acquire the machine via a strict business transaction. Your Hand is free unless you have paid for Porn to accompany the masturbation.

jerikson40

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12 years ago

"But in a strip club with a virtual stranger I don't want that type of intimacy."

Sclvr5005, are you a woman?

Alucard

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12 years ago

Fear of intimacy knows NO gender!

GoVikings

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12 years ago

Never had a dancer try to kiss me during any lap dance I've received. But it seems like it's not uncommon based on the replies here. I'm very surprised dancers would initiate kissing during lap dances especially since most strip club customers are old. What are the chances a 20 something year old is going to find a guy who is 2 or 3 (or more) decades older than her attractive? Very unlikely. That's why I don't get why they would do it.

sclvr5005

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12 years ago

no jerikson40.....are you?

Alucard

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12 years ago

GoVikings it is possibly a way to increase the interest of the recipient in getting more dances or more extras. ESPECIALLY if the Patron enjoys kissing. It is also possible that the dancer enjoys kissing too. IMHO it's a bit of both on both sides.

GoVikings

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12 years ago

Alucard, yeah, the only thing that would make sense to me is- they do it because they're trying to give their customer(s) the best experiences possible- hoping that he will become a repeat customer.

Alucard

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12 years ago

I agree GoVikings. Make it more personal. I repeat visits with dancers willing to kiss.

Dougster

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12 years ago

Hey, alutard, when you pay one of these whores to kiss you does she enjoy it a) in your imagination only? or b) in reality as well. If you answer "b" I say it is further proof what a dumbfuck you are.

jerikson40

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12 years ago

Sclvr, it just sounds like a strange statement to be coming from a guy. Not many guys worry about excess intimacy from a chick looking at them. Sounds more like a chick thing. Just seems weird, that's all.

sclvr5005

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12 years ago

jerikson- if you had ever met my ex-wife you'd know why I said what I said. Which is part of the reason she's my ex.

gawker

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12 years ago

I love personalizing the time with a stripper in VIP. I got a wonderful NJ recently & asked the girl why there was no kissing. She said that kissing was too intimate. Sucking Dick is far more impersonal.

Alucard

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12 years ago

I agree gawker that kissing is very personal and intimate activity. BUT I believe this dancer was blowing smoke by saying claiming that taking an erection into her mouth is impersonal.

Estafador

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12 years ago

I'm gonna take shadowcat's reason as the best reason for girls looking up at you while blowing you off. Perhaps next time I get a bj and that happens, I'll ask. And why does pointless slanders happen in EVERY topicN sheesh. You ask some simple questions get a mess of bullshit. And what's with you and personal alucard? Why do you want to be personal with a whore. Unless she's SMOKING bad and you feel she's too good to let go (and it'll be cheaper to have a sexy ass mama suck you off for intimacy), what's the point. There's no intimacy in bjs. Just one sided (sometimes two if the WHORE is really into blowing strangers off) pleasure and pleasure doesn't have to be personal.

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