yesterday I think I "broke up" with my first regular stripper. we'll call her B and I started seeing her over summer and it was fun for awhile. I would always give her $2 and she would give me a couple of songs with dfk and then a bbbj with dt but no cim.
she dances at a higher end club (call it club x) . over the past 3 months I've been going to a mid range club, by no means low end, but I don't have to compete with nearly as many whales as the higher end club I'm referring to.
any way, I've got a couple new regulars so I pretty much stay out of club x now as club y is a better value in every since of the word.
B had been texting me about once a week trying to get me to come see her. in the club she would always give me SS about how she actually had fun with me and how she would actually get happy to see me. but she never offered to lower her price and she ALWAYS asked for a tip afterward. New girls at club y are better looking, cheaper, never ask for a tip (which is why I actually tip them), and give me the same shit about how they actually have fun with me and are happy to see me, but they prove it by giving me freebies on occasion. so as you can see, my choice was easy.
anyway, B texts me yesterday "you ever going to come and see me again".
my response "don't know. New regulars at club y are more generous with me."
she responds "yeah, cheap white trash"
I respond "or maybe they just know how to keep a good customer coming back for more"
this just illustrates how strippers have no business since. I've heard club x had slowed down and I think that's evident by B texting me to come see her once or twice a week recently even though it's been at least 2 or 3 months since I last did. and at $2 a session it's not like I was a whale to her. she could've easily bumped her price down and tried to get me back, instead she insults her competition and simultaneously offends me in the process.
when I first started this hobby about a year ago, I was nice and respectful and a chump. now I know they're all just whores and there are plenty of whores in the sea.
Keep in mind that texting is about the easiest thing for a stripper to do. It takes far less time than a quick bathroom break. They are even better at it than those people that win the texting contests at the ballpark. And you are not the only guy she is texting. So it took all of four seconds for her to knock out a text to ask you to come in. The potential payoff for a four-second text makes it well worth her tiny sliver of time. She may have sent it while she was doing three other things. The insisting on a tip after each time is your clear signal. You may step up your game to get a little more from her, but hot chicks in upper-end clubs have enough dumb whales to fill in her lost income from you. Just the way it is.