Gifts
I have a question, and would like to get y'alls feedback. A dancer at the club I frequent has a birthday coming up and I am thinking of getting her something. Under normal circumstances I wouldn't even consider getting a dancer a gift, but she's treated me very well every time I've gone in, we've gotten to know each other a bit and I think it'd be appreciated. I don't go in and spend extravagant amounts of money, hell, once I only spent $30 including the $15 cover. Even so, she generally comes over and spends most of the night with me, whenever I'm there. (For those of you that will warn and/or flame me, I'm under no delusions that this will lead to anything OTC, she just provides a pleasant experience when I go in.)Anyway, I would like to get her a little something. I absolutely will not spend more than $50 and would like to spend closer to $20-$30. I'm kind of debating on what would be best as a gift, thus, I'm opening the floor to you guys. What are your thoughts? Any unique gifts you've given or heard of being given? I know at least a couple dancers read this forum, do you ladies have any suggestions?
Got something to say?
Start your own discussion
16 comments
Latest
Good lord, drunk at 12:30 PM.
That having been said, I've thought about it, and decided not to purchase a gift for this dancer. I don't want her to get the wrong idea about what I want, which certainly isn't a relationship. A buddy of mine has purchased a gift for her, and he is a RIL. A gift from me would likely be interpreted as competing with him, I think. Therefore, I don't think it would be a good idea.
This should not be interpreted to say that having good regulars and favorites are a bad things, just realize they aren't going to run away and be your wife.
Perhaps the foregoing opinion is overly cynical, and I apologize if some of you have had experiences contrary to the above opinion. I also congratulate you.
Clif, I agree with you %100. We men are notoriously able to delude ourselves into the most unbelievable fantasies. That's not the case here. Would I be willing to see her outside of the club? Absolutely. Will that happen? I seriously doubt it. Is this an attempt to change her perception of me to the better? If you want to look at it like that, sure, I suppose. To me, it's the same as tipping her. She goes out of her way to give me a great experience when I go to the club, to me that deserves some recognition. I don't tip a whole lot when I'm in the club, generally a dollar per song when they're on stage and I generally get the dollar dance when they come by, but that's it. When I buy a private dance, I don't tip any extra. She never asks me to tip, never asks for a drink, and generally sits with me all night. I have yet to buy more than one private dance with her in a single night, and have never gotten a "VIP" dance from her. With her making maybe $20 from me on nights when guys are buying multiple VIP's from her, and she still chooses to sit with me. I figure that's good enough to deserve a LITTLE something extra, every once in a while.
Sorry, this is a bit wordy, but it's late and I tend to ramble. I'll head over to the other thread now and stop cluttering the forum.
* a possible exception might be if they bought you a gift first