Disappointing OTC
LisleLapper
Illinois
So I am stuck in god awful Milwaukee and the lack of mileage in our clubs is notorious and infuriating or downright expensive when it happens. After years of participating in the escort scene I decided that there were some advantages to auditioning ITC for OTC and having a better idea of what you will get.
Silk and OTB both have plenty of dancers with OTC menus so it was fairly easy to find someone gorgeous and work out an OTC arrangement. In the end the audition ITC didn't prepare me for the disappointment OTC. She was stunning, great body, but the sex itself was lackluster. So now I am torn. What would you guys do?
1. Continue to see her OTC in the hopes that familiarity will improve the sex.
2. Find another girl, potentially dodging the first at her club, and work the process for another OTC encounter.
3. Return to the escort scene and pay a premium for their time, but never really getting a GFE experience.
4. Abandon Milwaukee altogether, take a traveling consultant position, and play ITC/OTC in other cities.
Thoughts?
Silk and OTB both have plenty of dancers with OTC menus so it was fairly easy to find someone gorgeous and work out an OTC arrangement. In the end the audition ITC didn't prepare me for the disappointment OTC. She was stunning, great body, but the sex itself was lackluster. So now I am torn. What would you guys do?
1. Continue to see her OTC in the hopes that familiarity will improve the sex.
2. Find another girl, potentially dodging the first at her club, and work the process for another OTC encounter.
3. Return to the escort scene and pay a premium for their time, but never really getting a GFE experience.
4. Abandon Milwaukee altogether, take a traveling consultant position, and play ITC/OTC in other cities.
Thoughts?
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Not many girls have disappointed me with bad sex. Almost every girl has SOME ability. And I'm sure that perhaps some girls have been disappointed in my performance.
However, the few girls that I have been VERY disappointed in, those were the girls I simply did not pursue again.
1. Sex is a job, so she's keeping it professional, impersonal.
2. She wants your money, but not you. Maybe things will change with familiarity.
3. This is the way she has sex with everybody. (what a disappointment).
4. You don't have a connection. Hey, sometimes it doesn't happen. Try someone else.
It seems that you are looking for what can’t be bought. Often sex that is paid for will be mechanical and/or impersonal.
Money is a conflict of interest – if you are paying her to be with you she is with you b/c you are paying her, not b/c she want to be with *you*.
Find somebody you don’t have to pay to have sex with you and you may get what you are looking for.
Why might she not want the sex to be good? She has bad incidents in her past regarding sex. She does not want you to get attached. She does not want to get attached herself. The list goes on.
Best choice: find an escort/stripper who wants the sex to be good.
No. If it sucks, then it will likely not get better. There are a lot of girls that do p4p, but a certain % of them cannot get themselves to do much more than go through the motions. I would move on.
"2. Find another girl, potentially dodging the first at her club, and work the process for another OTC encounter."
This. Develop a couple of favs who you think will be good targets. OTB and Silk both have reps for having more understanding girls compared to a lot of clubs in Milwaukee, so with a little patience I am sure that you can find what you are seeking.
"3. Return to the escort scene and pay a premium for their time, but never really getting a GFE experience."
Since when do escorts run at a premium vs. OTC with strippers? Though given what little I have seen from what advertises on EROS in Milwaukee, I'd probably avoid that route. LE is also, by all reports, particularly tough on escorts in Milwaukee.
"4. Abandon Milwaukee altogether, take a traveling consultant position, and play ITC/OTC in other cities."
Up to you I suppose, but I don't think that I would change my job just because of strip clubs. LOL
If you say it convincingly enough, she'll take you for some metro-sexual, white knight, PL who just wants to feel good about himself and spend money on her doing it. Maybe she'll fake it better next time or, if you're lucky, actually give you some ideas for making it better.
As for escorts being a premium, let me shed some light on that one. The local escort scene is nearly as bad as the strip club scene. There are very few drop dead gorgeous escorts in Milwaukee. So I have played with a lot of visiting girls, mostly ILE and Viva girls. Spectacular looks but faked or mechanical sex with an occasional genuine encounter here and there. I'm used to $300 - $400 per hour for those girls, so OTC that is $500 for 3-4 hours is a much more attractive generosity mark.
As for talking about the situation with the girl, I'm not sure that will produce anything...in thinking about that night I get the sense that she is performing the way she would for anybody. The sex is truly a challenge for her psychologically despite everything she says to the contrary the rest of the time. She is a frisky rule-breaker in the club, a normal down-to-earth girl via text and on the phone OTC, but the act of having sex, while something she does, is not something she seems to really be comfortable with.
As for option 4, that was a joke making light of just how much Milwaukee sucks. I'd love to spend a few months playing in Detroit...