LisleLapper

Thanks, guys, for the advice. I think you all have put this in perspective for me. I think rickdugan is right about moving on with option 2. I just need to move on from the disappointment with the first girl and find someone else, if the right someone else can be found. What I am looking for seems simple: a 9-10 who genuinely enjoys sex and for a certain amount of generosity is willing to let me be one of the guys she plays with. As for escorts being a premium, let me shed some light on that one. The local escort scene is nearly as bad as the strip club scene. There are very few drop dead gorgeous escorts in Milwaukee. So I have played with a lot of visiting girls, mostly ILE and Viva girls. Spectacular looks but faked or mechanical sex with an occasional genuine encounter here and there. I'm used to $300 - $400 per hour for those girls, so OTC that is $500 for 3-4 hours is a much more attractive generosity mark. As for talking about the situation with the girl, I'm not sure that will produce anything...in thinking about that night I get the sense that she is performing the way she would for anybody. The sex is truly a challenge for her psychologically despite everything she says to the contrary the rest of the time. She is a frisky rule-breaker in the club, a normal down-to-earth girl via text and on the phone OTC, but the act of having sex, while something she does, is not something she seems to really be comfortable with. As for option 4, that was a joke making light of just how much Milwaukee sucks. I'd love to spend a few months playing in Detroit...

I guess I should elaborate on the disappointment. She did everything I asked her to do, but was distant during our time together and did not initiate anything. She is engaging and communicative the rest of the time but I am looking for someone more invested in the sex but not in an acting kinda way like most escorts seem to be.