Stupid question about a dancer I just met
Tuesday, July 10, 2012 3:34 AM
Hi all
First please let me apologize for this question as I suspect I already know the answer but it's really bugging me so I want the opinions of people more experienced than me with this stuff.
I will try (and fail) to keep this as short as possible so I don't bore you all to death over something which is probably really simple.
Basically I was in a stag group that visited a club over the weekend and as is tradition we ended up in a strip club at the end of the night. I had decided before that I wasn't going to get a dance and was doing really well until I mentioned to one of my friends that this particular girl happened to tick every one of my boxes as she walked past.
Seeing my weakness and finding it funny to embarrass me he calls out to her and insists I have a dance. Seeing her face to face I give in pay up and have a great 5 minutes before returning to my table. 2 minutes later she walks past me barely looks over and carries on with her job so I chalk it up to a nice experience and get back to my beer thinking nothing else of it.
A couple of hours pass and we have been talking to loads of girls who mostly offer us a dance, we mostly say no and they go onto the next table. This carries on until a few girls stick around (it's around 3am now) and we all just chat. After a while one of them gets a bit forward and says to me she wants to show me some moves and as I like her I don't want to be mean and I tell her I only have eyes for one girl here (the girl I had a dance with earlier). So I'm forced to point her out to this other girl who then insists on calling her over to me again. Much blushing on my part follows and again I end up falling into her trap and get a dance that follows the pattern of the first, both were great btw.
As we part ways for a second time I tell her I think she is amazing, she seems a bit blushy but says thanks gives me a brief hug and walks off. Again I think oh well before joining my table while we polish the last few drinks off.
We are just thinking of leaving and this girl is called up on stage to do a routine so we stick around to watch it. Now this is the bit that has got me as through her entire routine her eyes are locked directly at me. This is infront of the whole club and is so obvious pretty much everyone in there is looking over at me to see what she is staring at.
Now I know that it likely she was just trying to ensure I return another time but it was intense enough to get my attention and I can't seem to shake the moment off. I have never dated a dancer before and to be honest always considered them unattainable but this girl has really got me wanting to look her up.
I know I'm a moron who has just fallen of her wise game but I can't really understand why she looked at me that way? I'm pretty sure I told her I lived quite far away and a return visit there would be unlikely.
Anyway sorry to bore anyone still reading this and those that gave up long ago. I just hate not being able to understand stuff like this!
Hopefully I will have some better/shorter posts in the future.
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