Bad Technique
One would think that with all the practice that they get every day that strippers would get pretty good at whatever the level of the extras that they offer. But that does not seem to be the case.
I am talking about basics like:
...no teeth scraping in BJs
,,,in a HJ don't just grab the shaft and flail away as hard and fast as possible
...A dry hand on a dry cock does not feel good. Lube is your friend.
...balls do not like being treated roughly.
...Asking "are you gonna cum yet" is not the way to get a guy to climax sooner.
...Bouncing is not the same as grinding or thrusting.
Or maybe the dancers, or some of their customers, are taking the things that are shown in porn videos too literally. That is another thought that I have been having lately...is modern porn making our society less skilled as lovers?
I am talking about basics like:
...no teeth scraping in BJs
,,,in a HJ don't just grab the shaft and flail away as hard and fast as possible
...A dry hand on a dry cock does not feel good. Lube is your friend.
...balls do not like being treated roughly.
...Asking "are you gonna cum yet" is not the way to get a guy to climax sooner.
...Bouncing is not the same as grinding or thrusting.
Or maybe the dancers, or some of their customers, are taking the things that are shown in porn videos too literally. That is another thought that I have been having lately...is modern porn making our society less skilled as lovers?
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FWIW I'm finding the opposite to be true - more dancers nowadays seem better skilled in lady-love, at least by my experiences. Their skills are definitely improving, which is great for customers like myself. Maybe because it's so rare for them to get to try it out in the club, or maybe they're practicing on each other in the DR :)
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"Just get it over with. In the SC, she's ready to move on to the next customer as soon as possible. Volume, money, fees, tips."
Hope that's not your personal married experience. It certainly wasn't mine when I was married. I believe your 2nd statement is more accurate, but if you feel like you're part of an assmbly line, maybe you need to go when the club isn't so busy.
It can't be 'just wanting to get it over with' since the better technique would certainly have it over with sooner! Maybe it is just not caring, but I would have thought that the economics would work against it. Unhappy customers do not repeat. Maybe they are thinking that if you don't finish in the allotted VIP time you will have to pay for more time, but again that is not going to make for a customer that wants to repeat.
Bouncing is one thing I hate. It's a lot of work for the girl, so they are often happy to stop if you ask nicely.
"I think it has more to do with not caring" - sad but true.
If the Dancer can or will not improve, find another who has better sex skills and gives a damned about a steady income from your patronage, by performing better or at a higher level. Let the unskilled &/or the unwilling Dancers learn a HARD lesson about customer service & $$$$!!! LOL
That's some funny shit. Once, in desperation (my member was about to get permanently retired), I blurted out to go easy. To my surprise it worked. She went from crazy, rip them little heads off bitch to miss sensual, sexual healing babe.
But she was the pleasant exception. Usually stripper sex ain't nothing to write home about.
You ARE picking the wrong Dancers then.