There have been times at the SC when I see a waitress and I say to myself – “man – I wish she gave dancesâ€.
Has anyone hooked up with a SC waitress ITC (at least getting LDs) or OTC (at least a private show)? If so, how did you go about it?
Same question with respect to shot-girls.
I have had LDs with several waitresses and OTC action with a couple. I suspect that most waitresses in a SC at least are considering dancing, see this thread on the pink site.
No i haven't but I hear ya! I have certainly wanted to on ocassion! Sometimes the waitresses are the hottest chicks in the club.
I got a VIP dance from an Albuquerque SC waitress a few months ago. She said she could not dance on the main floor only in VIP. She was very hot and gave a good couple of dances too.
And I've seen a few other waitresses I would have loved to have dances from.
I've had dances with a barmaid before she moved behind the bar.
I did once in Memphis many years ago. The club was short on dancers so the waitress did double duty.
I don't think that it is possible in Atlanta because the dancers are required to have a license. Club Wax is the only club where it might happen because it is a bikini club and no license is required.
Come to think of it, I have never seen a shot girl at any Atlanta club. That may require a license too.
Bartender pulled me over in a dark corner, pulled up her top and showed me her new boob job. Wouldn't let me touch dammit.
sc,
Some of your dancers could be counted as shot girls after you shoot on them! :)
Clubber - I don't shoot "ON" them. :)
I know one club when I lived in L.A.(pre-2006), where with permission from the on-duty manager, a waitress could give a lap dance. I think that was at the Strip Joint, Pomona, CA.
There was a waitress at a club I wanted to get dances from a number of years ago, but no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't get her to give me a dance. I was very disappointed.
sc,
Perhaps an "O"/"I" typo. :)
I haven't been to a strip club where, to my knowledge, a waitress on duty can give a lap dance.
One club used to have double and triple threats. A girl or two that were a bartender on one shift, another day a dancer, another day a waitress or shot girl. There you could get your fantasy fulfilled, or not.
But in my experience the different groups are very territorial. A shot girl friend nearly got fired because she was accused by a couple of strippers of grinding on guys. A stripper I know got reamed out by a massage girl for giving a neck massage to a customer.
Do not mess with her money, they'll tell you!
I dated a few waitresses and had a number offer OTC (sex) for money. In the latter case, they were always the ones who brought up the idea on their own.
Just talk with a few if you are a regular, and, maybe, one day when they're running low on their dough (maybe they shorted treasuries into the massive rally as txtittyfan advised) they will come up with this creative way to make money on their own.
I have been in several club where the shot girls could give dances. I have seldom seen waitresses do dances. I was in Platimun's in Allentown PA where the best looking girls in the place were the Champagne room hostesses. They were both very smart and drop dead beautiful but did not do dances. They made way to much money selling the rooms to consider dancing.
Several times, both waitresses and bartenders, when they're willing. Some clubs don't allow it at all, some just discourage it. As for how, it's the same as anything else. Ask. If they can, and want to, they will. If not, they won't.
Heck, sometimes even in clubs where it's not allowed, they'll relent if it's slow, or you're one of only a few customers, if you approach the manager right. Lots of times, after verifying that she'd like to (because after all, "we're not allowed" is sometimes just code for "leave me the fuck alone, you creep") simply asking the manager nicely, or in a "you're not going to get any more of my money unless you let her give me a dance" way, will get results.
I think it would be a rare club that will let the waitresses give dances. After all, who would be selling the drinks which make the club money? And the dancers would be pissed regarding losing business.
I think you might have more success asking for OTC.
I've been to a couple clubs (really just bars with strippers) in which the waitresses or the bartender could give lap dances. At most places I've been to, the waitresses are under strict orders to never dance, although I've seen waitresses who eventually became dancers.
I have never attempted to have OTC with a waitress or bartender, although I did meet one who was willing once only she wasn't my type at all.
The shot girls and wait staff are sometimes hotter than the dancers. So I've invested in a few projects over the years. I have had several ITC and OTC experiences with waitresses and shot girls. Here is what I have come to learn:
Shot girls almost always dance. If they don't, it's usually a special arrangement that keeps them doing it. I've gotten more mileage from SGs than the dancers at clubs with no xxxtras. If you want to have fun with SGs, always tip them. Like everytime they interact with you. I have been given the digits without asking several times.
Some shot girls are very agressive, so you'll have to watch yourself because you might not want them coming around more often. Depends on how hot they are. I think it's. Ecause get work on the same arrangement as dancers do, where they have to pay to work there. Wait staff gets that reduced wage, and then tips in top.
I have done OTC with 1 shot girl out of 4-5 tries; it wasn't really hard at all.
Waitresses are much harder to score with as they mentally think of themselves as different than the dancers. Even if the club allows it, 99% of the waitresses will not dance for you because they will have to dance for all future requests, and most are not ready to switch to "The Dark Side."
Also waitresses typically have actual boyfriends, where most dancers only have fuck buddies. So waitresses will keep you walled off much longer. This doesn't mean you can't get the digits, though. I have scored OTS with 2 waitresses out of 10 or so tries, and a third would on the condition we dated for a few weeks, and I stopped getting dances.
By tries, I mean going into the club when the waitress is working, talking to her, buying her drinks, and tipping her; repeatedly. I'm talking multi-visit projects. Strip club waitresses are used to customers trying to get rid of them all the time, so they can concentrate on the dancers. If you show love to the waitresses, they will remember you and you will stand out.
I've had the waitresses and shit girls verbally fight over me at a couple of clubs. Sure they wanted my money (which I budgeted), butthe attention was great. I always had my drink(s) when I wanted them, and never got hassled when I didn't want them.
If you really want to get in a waitress' heart, buy her a gift after a couple of visits. They'll go crazy cause it's very rare for a customer to give them anything other than a couple of bucks.
On a recent trip to a regular club, after buying myself and my dancer friend a few drinks, on the last drink of the day the waitress pulled open the waistband of her shorts (sans panties) and told me I could put the tip "there". And yes, I did linger for a few seconds.
@magicrat: "the waitress pulled open the waistband of her shorts (sans panties) and told me I could put the tip "there". And yes, I did linger for a few seconds."
You make it sound like that's not normal. :)
gmd...not in my world..that was a first..well maybe a second, for me
PM HonestT. He may some pointers.