The shot girls and wait staff are sometimes hotter than the dancers. So I've invested in a few projects over the years. I have had several ITC and OTC experiences with waitresses and shot girls. Here is what I have come to learn:
Shot girls almost always dance. If they don't, it's usually a special arrangement that keeps them doing it. I've gotten more mileage from SGs than the dancers at clubs with no xxxtras. If you want to have fun with SGs, always tip them. Like everytime they interact with you. I have been given the digits without asking several times.
Some shot girls are very agressive, so you'll have to watch yourself because you might not want them coming around more often. Depends on how hot they are. I think it's. Ecause get work on the same arrangement as dancers do, where they have to pay to work there. Wait staff gets that reduced wage, and then tips in top.
I have done OTC with 1 shot girl out of 4-5 tries; it wasn't really hard at all.
Waitresses are much harder to score with as they mentally think of themselves as different than the dancers. Even if the club allows it, 99% of the waitresses will not dance for you because they will have to dance for all future requests, and most are not ready to switch to "The Dark Side."
Also waitresses typically have actual boyfriends, where most dancers only have fuck buddies. So waitresses will keep you walled off much longer. This doesn't mean you can't get the digits, though. I have scored OTS with 2 waitresses out of 10 or so tries, and a third would on the condition we dated for a few weeks, and I stopped getting dances.
By tries, I mean going into the club when the waitress is working, talking to her, buying her drinks, and tipping her; repeatedly. I'm talking multi-visit projects. Strip club waitresses are used to customers trying to get rid of them all the time, so they can concentrate on the dancers. If you show love to the waitresses, they will remember you and you will stand out.
I've had the waitresses and shit girls verbally fight over me at a couple of clubs. Sure they wanted my money (which I budgeted), butthe attention was great. I always had my drink(s) when I wanted them, and never got hassled when I didn't want them.
If you really want to get in a waitress' heart, buy her a gift after a couple of visits. They'll go crazy cause it's very rare for a customer to give them anything other than a couple of bucks.