avoiding violence in the strip club

I thought I would get everyone's opinion on what I should do regarding a situation I ran into yesterday. I was at the bar, when a drunk dancer came up and started talking to me. After the first few seconds of staring at her tits and then having a quick conversation, I told her I did not want a dance. I don't know if it was because she was drunk, but she was insistent on getting a dance. I told her Brooke if I want a dance I will let you know, but this club is so loud she must have thought I said something else because she immediately became defensive and hostile towards me. Of course with my luck, there was no one around but us two and I told her she needed to leave me alone, which she then did. But what if she hit me or threw her glass drink on me, is the golden rule to never hit a woman still apply, or should I protect myself and take her down until the bouncers/management come?

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  • deogol
    13 years ago
    If you take her down the bouncers will immediately figure you are attacking the dancer - as that is usually the situation since a lot of jack asses go to strip clubs.

    But if you are backing up and still defending yourself, that should be enough body language for the bouncers to question what is happening.

    Otherwise, prepare for entertainment option number two: Bouncer bashing. And yes, there are people who partake in it for kicks.
  • 23cambyman
    13 years ago
    The problem was my back was against the bar counter and she was basically right on top of me. But I agree with what you are saying how they will think I am the aggressor.
  • vincemichaels
    13 years ago
    Ask to speak to the manager of the club and explain the bitch's behaviour.
  • rickdugan
    13 years ago
    If she hit you or threw her drink on you, then so what? Is a little 110 lb stripper really going to hurt you?

    Years ago I had a dancer dump a drink on my head simply becuase I refused to dance with her. I am sure that I had an incredulous look on my face, but what was I gonna do - pin her to the floor for it? That little antic got her escorted out the door of the club fwiw.
  • 3LeggedMan
    13 years ago
    This looks like a classic no-win situation. Although you might be legally justified to respond physically to an assault by a dancer, there's no way to predict the response of the establishment's bouncers. It is likely that they would take great joy in roughing you up on your way out the front door.

    If it was me, I might have gone for the dance. Mileage would probably be higher than normal.
  • bang69
    13 years ago
    As a formoer bouncer VM is correct. Also get up & find a nother dancer.
  • Clubber
    13 years ago
    vm correct? SACRILEGE!!!
  • Alucard
    13 years ago
    Be like Ali & cover up & take it until help comes. Unless, of course, your Life is ACTUALLY endangered.
  • motorhead
    13 years ago
    I agree with RickDugan. For a moment swallow your pride, don't retaliate. Let management do their stuff.
  • Alucard
    13 years ago
    "Try warning shots.

    http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=5e2_13336…"

    Advocating the use of a weapon will get him in MORE trouble, NOT less!
  • newmark
    13 years ago
    This is another reason to frequent clubs where you are known. The bouncers would probably be a little slower to jump to conclusions where a regular is concerned.
  • georgmicrodong
    13 years ago
    "Advocating the use of a weapon will get him in MORE trouble, NOT less!"

    Yeah, because he was TOTALLY serious about that...
  • vincemichaels
    13 years ago
    Of course I am right, Clubber !! I sized you up in a few seconds as a cool dude !! Care to dispute that ?? LMAO
  • JuiceBox69
    13 years ago
    Ok look this is what you do go buy grand theft auto for playsation or xbox....you can simulate the situation k.....go into the strip clubs and then smack that bitch but look out her comes the bouncer....so what cha going to do son ? Easy pistal wipe the first motha fucka then blast 2 rounds into the 2nd bouncer......now you have a few min before the cops arive so fuck 2 stripers at gun point then pull out the baaaaaazuuuuuukaaaaaa for the pigs !..........works every fuckin time playa !

    Disclamer : if you do this in real life your either stupid as a retard or your juicebox69 : )........good day sir ! I said good day !!!
  • shadowcat
    13 years ago
    juice - If I go to Follies after 8PM, I want you with me. :)
  • JuiceBox69
    13 years ago
    Shadow.....your first on my list.....it will be soon...very soon Godfather
  • 23cambyman
    13 years ago
    Thanks for everyone's input...especially you juicebox haha
  • JuiceBox69
    13 years ago
    23cambyman thanks 4 da love son !
  • SuperDude
    13 years ago
    Leave as quickly as possible and write the manager a report, naming the dancer.
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