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Why did she just suggest we could do something sexual away from the club when I

sharkhunter

Ok, I'm being partly funny due to the other thread. On the serious side though this does happen and I wonder why.
You know, you're minding your own business in a strip club and a dancer whom you've never talked to before suddenly comes up to you, or some strange girl in a strip club, and suggests the two of you could have some fun away from the club. Now if they say anything about money, it's obvious what she wants. If not you're left wondering, does she want money for sex? Who is she? You may not have noticed her naked and she probably has her clothes on which makes it harder to know if you want to bother with her. Ok, you haven't talked to her longer than a minute and she is suggesting things most dancers don't ever. What do you do? You know nothing about her. She could be passing through and not be a regular dancer. She could be the club slut seeking a chance with someone new to the club. Do you be bold and blunt and ask her how much she charges for this and that and see what she says or is that implicating you if this is really some type of hidden sting operation you walked into?

Maybe she really likes you and isn't even a dancer in the club but a female customer trying to hook up with you because she thinks any guy visiting a strip club must be desperate for sex. She didn't think she would find anyone she likes but hey she found you and now wants to take you home like finding a juicy piece of steak at the supermarket. What do you do? Ignore her and face her scorn because you must be gay for turning down a girl who wants to have sex? You don't even know her name and never saw her before. You just came to the club to have a little bit of fun. What if she is a dancer and then tries to sell lap dances since you're obviously not going to meet up later now. Do you agree to lap dances not knowing what extra things she may try to do? Obviously in my case, if she charges more than a normal lap dance, I'm not going to be too interested in her.

Oh well, these things pop up from time to time but there are some nights where you don't even see a dancer you're interested in getting a dance from and it gets boring waiting to see if someone interesting or pretty is dancing during the night.

The other possibility is that the dancer is a scammer setting guys up hoping for more, but charging an arm and a leg doing champagne room dances or ultra high regular lap dances or some rip off.

I remember one dancer in one club came up to me and instead of the normal "wanna dance?" question asked me
"You want a BJ or straight sex?" Then she said she didn't do dances. She persisted as if she was serious after asking her a question or two. Then I got curious and asked more questions. She started saying she would do lap dances but hinted it could be more. Then it seemed like since I wasn't going to go for any expensive champagne room, that lap dances were what she was shooting for. In hind site I recognize the scam but it was a good one. After I finally agreed to get lap dances, she said I had to pay up front. She would offer a deal though. 8 lap dances for $80 total. Anyway the first dance I was happy. The second dance in a crowded open lap dance room she started undoing my belt. She took it off. Then she started unzipping my zipper a bit. I was thinking, what the f... is she doing and why since everyone can see me here in this spot.

Then she said the bouncer was motioning over to her to come talk to him. I could not see him but believed that line. She said she would be right back to finish my dances. She previously said the money I prepaid I could put on the sofa. I straightened by pants back up, put my belt back on, then looked and saw my money was gone. She was gone and nowhere to be found. Rip off con artist in action. Undoing my pants bought her time to get away. Setting the money on the back side of the sofa falsely reassured me she wasn't a thief. I was robbed of the lap dances I paid for. Then she also falsely planted an idea that she might offer more than the normal lap dance.

There are the rip off con artists and then there are some dancers really looking to hook up either for fun or for money. I try to avoid all con artists. I try to get rid of dancers who say something about money up front. That leaves so much doubt in my mind whenever a dancer really just wants to have fun no strings attached that I probably have told her, not tonight and she leaves me with that funny stare like "what the hell is wrong with you?"

Any of you guys have similar stories?