Interesting phenomenon on a recent trip. A slow day shift, populated by a few of the, more Rubenesque dancers. One girl, very cute face, but the way too tight dress and thong she was wearing didn't do her any favors. Something unexpected happened as she got naked. Her curves looked much better, very natural and appealing. She was firm, only jiggled in the right places, and looked much better naked than clothed, even allowing for the naked factor. Seeing her naked I wouldn't even call her "big boned" or any of the other polite ways of saying fat, but the way she dressed made her look fat.
She looks better naked
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Chandler- I probably have said it, only to have it lost in some other topic. But it's hard to describe exactly what being a chubby chaser is like, because I don't go for the seriously obese ones. But most of the girls I like are definitley bigger than average. Actually, a lot of it has to do with trying to relive the fantasy of the one ex-girlfriend I'd take back (at least if I didn't know she was married). She was a big girl, but also a laugh riot a minute.
I'm no chubby chaser, but I do like a little bit of a shape. I hate that heroin chic look to be sure. And if a white girl's got a sista's ass? Oh my, that can be quite nice.
But yeah, I have noticed the 'looks better naked' thing. Seems that some women think ultratight clothes are always sexy.. they are, up until there's spillage.. then it just looks sloppy.
...and I love how even skinny girls' asses look fleshy and inviting in jeans.
Dan, I don't recall you posting about being a chubby chaser before. Seriously? I know when I see a "plus sized" gal onstage, I just shrug and say to myself I guess there's some guys who go for that. Me, I like 'em skinny, although I'm not insistent on it.
I chase mild muscularity. Not enough that she makes me think of males, not so little that she seems either smoothed over or coked out and anorexic. The lates ATF I've found, it turns out, was an all-state-er in tennis in her younger years. No surprise to me, I liked her body. :)
That sort of thing is why I am a chubby chaser. It's the mental imagery of a girl ready to burst out of their clothes. Skinny girls just don't have that effect.
Ever hear the expression, "You eat with your eyes first."
You go to a strip club knowing in advance that you like pussy. This isn't something you should be finding out about as you walk in. Therefore in an attempt to get noticed and attract the dancers dress in what they feel is an enticing manner.
Now how on the money their judgement is on what makes them look appealing is subjective. We've all seen tragic attempts to look sexy as well as the rare, damn near perfect, knock you off of your feet, perfectly dressed ready to steal your heart dancer. This is your holy grail. The girl that gets to you in some way yopu can't even quite describe. The one you find so attractive on many different levels.
Amazing how much an outfit can do. I totally agree, and often the overly-skinny are the ones who look best in street clothes or an outfit. But there's also the converse phenomenon, in which a too-plump girl can really look great in street clothes if the jeans are tight and the shirt is floppy, allowing the breasts to sway while the belly remains hidden. I think in the long run, this is why I like strip clubs -- you actually assess the woman on the basis of the woman herself, what she REALLY looks like. No fooling me with misleading tents and girdles.
I had this happen many years ago in a club near KC. A dancer came out in a tight outfit and I was thinking she's sort of fat and kind of ignored her. They have a long stage and start at one end and dance, get topless and when they get to the other end another dancer has started so you always have 2 on stage. I was at the far end. When she worked her way down to me, I had been watching the prior dancer, who was hot. I looked up and thoght damn what happened to the fat chick. She was the hottest dancer in the place hands down, not a bit of fat just all curves, the outfit just wasn't right. Got about 10 dances just to prove that to myself lol
The girls with a little extra flesh on their bones have more to grab and squeeze and rub and jiggle. Mmmmmm...
While I do not consider myself a "chubby chaser," some of the best dances I have ever gotten came from the fleshier ones. The skinny ones just do not have enough in the front or the back to rub me the right way!
As for adjectives to describe these dancers, I prefer the term buxom which means "vigorously or healthily plump; full-bosomed."
As for the plainly obese ones, I pass. They shift from a healthy hourglass shape to a pear shape or worse. Eeeeewwww!