JEALOUSY BETWEEN DANCERS

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• jackslash

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  13 years ago

  When I first became a regular at a nice strip club, I got a lot of dances from 2 very attractive young women. As soon as I walked in the bar, they would come over to my table and I would buy them drinks before going upstairs for dances. It took me a while to realize that these girls did not like each other at all. They were jealous and did not want me to spend time with the other one. I found it flattering for 2 attractive girls to be jealous over me. (I'm sure they loved me only for myself, not for the money I spent on them.)
• Alucard

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  13 years ago

  I've run into this a couple of times when I've been spending a LOT of time with an ATF & spending a LOT of $$$$. It was just the other Dancer's NEED for money.
• bang69

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  13 years ago

  jealousy betewwn dancers is one of many reasons strippers get into cat fights.
• DandyDan

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  13 years ago

  I used to see it all the time at the early days of my favorite club. My third ATF did not like me associating with certain dancers, which may have led to that particular relationship ending acrimoniously. Usually, in those days, since I knew she left at midnight, I just stuck around til she left, then what happened afterwards was not anything for her to know. Nowadays, it seems like everyone works together there, which is weird.
• shadowcat

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  13 years ago

  Justified or not, they usually claim that the big money earner is doing extras and should be avoided to stay clear of STDs.
• LeeH

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  13 years ago

  I find it amusing that this happened at Oasis. My ATATF danced there and after a VIP with her, she'd go back to dressing room for a bit before rejoining me to hang out for a while and maybe give another LD or three. And she always INSISTED that I get dances from others if the opportunity arose (and I was interested in them) while she was gone. Granted, she had just made big money from me, but she was still cheating herself out of more small money. Another ATF (from another club) would actually pimp dances for other dancers. "Would you get a dance from so-and-so? She's having a bad night." I know that both of these are uncommon. But the whole thing just struck me since you mentioned Oasis to start with.
• rfcookie

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  13 years ago

  I'm honestly pretty baffled by this... at Oasis, you say? I'm trying to remember which big-boobied blondes we have... I can think of ONE blonde girl with big natural breasts, but the two that come to mind when you tell your story have implants. I'm not jealous of any dancers, and I'm pretty sure there are no dancers who are jealous of me. I don't undercut the other girls, and I'll help them hustle dances (and they do the same for me.) This is why I enjoy working at the Oasis so much - for the most part, we get along! Then again, I'm Asian, so I don't have much competition any way... I don't have to compete against 30 other Barbies in a club, only 3 or 4 at the very most.
• txtittyfan

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  13 years ago

  The benefits of being a hot Asian dancer are many. I have always had a preference for a hot Asian over a Barbie.
• georgmicrodong

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  13 years ago

  @rfcookie: "and I'm pretty sure there are no dancers who are jealous of me." I call bullshit :) Hell, <i>I'm</i> jealous of you; you get to play with that amazing body any time you want!
• LeeH

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  13 years ago

  RFCookie raises a good point, though. A lot of times when the dancers are at each others' throats all the time, there's a palpable sensation in the air as soon as you walk into the club. But I never felt that at Oasis. Of course, if my ATATF was there, I'd forget to breathe, so maybe I'm not the best judge of what was in the air. ;-)
• rfcookie

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  13 years ago

  Well, the girls at Oasis are very kind to me - they tell me they love my outfits, my stage show, that I'm pretty... etc etc. It's a nice place to work. Seriously. I honestly believe that if there IS drama, it's because one girl was unnecessarily rude to another. I stay drama-free by staying out of the dressing room (I'm usually too busy to be wasting much time there anyway) and keeping a smile on my face. Plus nobody can claim I'm doing extras, since I spend so little time in the VIP anyway :P Hell, I had one of my best nights over when another girl called me over to give dances with her to a customer who was dropping stupid amounts of money. She was too tired to continue on alone, even though she had made -- and I am not exaggerating -- at least $2000 off him.
• Shamrock211

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  13 years ago

  At the current club I work at, I've only had to break up 6 or 7 fights in the past 6 months or so and they were all between dancers or in one case a dancer and a customer. I had one girl come off the stage in the middle of her set and attack another dancer right on the floor. Super classy.....
• JuiceBox69

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  13 years ago

  I like it when this happens cuz u can play the 2 against each other for higher mileaage and extras !.....mo money ! Mo money ! Mo money !