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My View: What I'm Looking for & Hoping to FIND in a Dancer (Whether I find this

Alucard

1. A Sharp intellect or a pretty reasonable level of intelligence - Air Heads, STAY AWAY
2. An ability to carry on a conversation reasonably well as opposed to being a quiet social introvert
3. Experience - A. In Life aka being older & mature as opposed to an immature 20 something or younger - B. In Dancing or Sex
4. Dark Flowing Hair - Either Black or Brunet - Red Curly hair is a SPECIAL exception - NOT Blonde, I'm NOT attracted to Blondes
5. A reasonably sized & shaped Body - If a Dancer is so skinny that she looks like a pre-adolescent, I'm NOT INTERESTED - Some curves with reasonably & nicely sized Breasts and Derrière is GOOD - In terms of Facial looks, she doesn't need to be a 8 or 9 or 10, After all "Beauty" is in the eye of the Beholder
6. Stature - I have a GREAT attraction to Spinners, I'm not particularly attracted to really TALL Dancers - Average height for a woman is JUST Fine
7. Behavior - DO NOT... I repeat...DO NOT come up to me & say "Wanna Dance", that means IMMEDIATE rejection - A Dancer that I wish to sit with me should not be Stand-offish or aloof or seem bored or TOO into texting or talking on her Cell, I REALLY enjoy Flirting verbally & Physical flirting, You can't be TOO touchy/Feely with me - Don't be a ROB, I'll NOT short change a Dancer, so DON'T short change me on the agreed about activities - If a Dancer can't be "REAL" with me at the table/bar or in the dancing area or VIP, then be an Oscar winning Actress, I won't complain in either case - I'm going to treat a Dancer with courtesy & respect (I know you Guys have heard this from me before - Bear with me), please treat me the same - BADLY behaving Dancers will NEVER see ANY $$$ from me again nor will the Club in most cases & if the behavior is bad enough, I'll complain to the Manager too - This is GOLDEN RULE stuff