How many Dancer's know of your tuscl nickname.
I was wondering how many of your ATF’s or dancer’s know of your tuscl nickname and reviews I recently had an argument with one dancer who did know my tuscl nick from a review that posted about her former club.
It wasn’t a heated argument she was being very polite about it.
The club ID is 2203.
My first review for this club was in March of this year my next review for this was just a few weeks ago to let everyone now that’s now closed.
She said it sounded like I was gloating about the closing and that I seemed to be saying that my first review of the club was what closed the down.
Well that wasn’t my intention plus when I was there the club was already hurting would have closed any.
I did admit that my second review of the club was a bit harsh.
I have no idea if my review had anything to do with it.
I thought it was odd that she assumed that I was taking credit for the club closing down.
This is the tuscl URL for the club.
http://www.tuscl.com/clubdetail.asp?club…
Does it sound as if I’m taking credit for the club closing?
It wasn’t a heated argument she was being very polite about it.
The club ID is 2203.
My first review for this club was in March of this year my next review for this was just a few weeks ago to let everyone now that’s now closed.
She said it sounded like I was gloating about the closing and that I seemed to be saying that my first review of the club was what closed the down.
Well that wasn’t my intention plus when I was there the club was already hurting would have closed any.
I did admit that my second review of the club was a bit harsh.
I have no idea if my review had anything to do with it.
I thought it was odd that she assumed that I was taking credit for the club closing down.
This is the tuscl URL for the club.
http://www.tuscl.com/clubdetail.asp?club…
Does it sound as if I’m taking credit for the club closing?
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don't consider it anything more than excellent preparation on her part. It's only fair as the same bells go off sometimes while reading posts from dancers I think I don't know, but realize I might! Not the same topic, but I've seen one or two famous custy tuscl posters in a common club, but have never bothered them in their hobby time. If we're sitting next to each other on a slow day - I'll buy each of them a round for their expertise offered to this one time novice. One of their shared modes of operation that I've adopted is the general non consumption of alcohol while pursuing the hobby. Why dull the sense in a senses enhancing experience?
On the other hand I can tell some interesting stories about strange messages I got from hackers shortly after I first started using the internet. I have a ton of other stories I could tell as well not computer related. What is a turn off is if you want to say something computer related but the dancer just says "I hate computers!" and doesn't want to hear a word you say about it.
I don't think anyone knows me by my online nick but you never know if someone tried to figure it out. I think you may not want people to know if you highly criticized a club and/or certain people in it and then thought about returning. Unless you're not afraid of trouble. Lol, I always thought it was a bit amusing when a dancer says she is Trouble.
No three, but I never see one anymore. Still she remembered about four months after I told her even though we hadn't talked since then. Impressive memory, smart girl.
Five if you count retired ones.
Let's make that 4. I'm sure one will have forgotten by now. I only told her because I felt there was no danger she'd ever remember, much less read the board.
One of the retired one has probably forgotten by now too. Haven't heard from her for years.
Two active, one retired. I've never seen evidence that any of them have ever checked the board. One however does post on other boards on occasion.
So, I started leaving out "who I am" types of characteristics. A really really careful dancer or manager could follow the links and eventually unearth an older review that makes clear who I am, I suppose, but I don't credit them with that sort of initiative. In the long run, they could "find" me through this discussion board too. I tend to post things that are designed to ask for improvements in the club, if anything is negative at all, and not just sniping and grousing and saying some chicks are 'hos, so I'm not too concerned about being found out.
I HAVE been approached about it. One of my Favs had asked me if I was DougS (not a real stretch to figure it out, right?). She said that "someone" had been posting some very nice things about her and some of the other dancers had told her about it. She wanted to know. I, of course, 'fessed up about it. In one of our next OTC sessions, she asked me about it again, and asked if she could see what I'd written. I, again, of course, had nothing to hide and told her "sure", but we got busy wth "other things" and never got back to the subject at hand.
One of my clubbing buddies (another guy from SB) is a TUSCLer, and used to post quite a bit. One of his girls found out that he was a poster and wanted to see what he'd said. He went so far as to give her his user/password, so that she could log in and read, which she now does quite a bit. However, because of this, HE no longer posts <g>.
In answer to your initial question, I'd say currently three know my nickname on TUSCL.