Dancer talk.
Clubber
Florida
Another topic made me think of this one. I am not speaking of conversation in the general club area, but rather the LD, VIP Champagne Room, whatever. Do you want/like your dancer to talk? If so, what do you like to hear? General conversation, sweet nothings, dirty talk...?
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That being said, once in the back for the private dances, we really don't want to carry ona conversation, per se. A moan, MMMMMM, or instructions on where she wants touched are all good as are comments about what she likes about us or we like about her but otherwise we prefer to leave the chit chat for before and after.
You dog! BTW, Bow wow!
A lot of dancers will try to start up a conversation with "what do you do for fun?" I don't really like that question because I came to the strip club to have fun. I don't believe that is the answer they want to hear.
I appreciate the political innuendo, xD.
I had a dancer ask me that very question and for whatever reason that afternoon our conversation went lime this:
Her: What do you like to do for fun?
Me: Fuck, finger and eat pussy. Not necessarily in that order.
Her, as she climbed into my lap and guided my hand to the appropriate spot: Mmmm, I like that too.
After 20 or 30 minutes of teasing and finger play, we did a few dances in the VIP for my enjoyment. Very reasonable dance prices, and we we're both happy.
You hit the nail on the head, WE are the customer, and YOU are the employee. Too bad many dancers do not grasp this simple concept. Good for you!
I had a fave who wasn't trying to make every last penny she could every last second, so even if I didn't have the scratch for VIP, she's spend an hour with me for maybe 3 couch dances scattered throughout -- and I suspect I could've gotten away with less, but I *did* want to see that body. ;-)
She was one of those rare types that had a sexy (not just attractive) brain as well as body, although a bit ADD -- we once went from British comedy to rimming in about 60 seconds. But, anyway, if she kept talking during a dance, it didn't diminish the experience.
Of course, what I really want to hear from a dancer isn't words at all, it's the little gasps of pain she lets out while I'm pinching her nipples and strapping her butt with my belt. True blue died in the wool pain subs are hard to come by, though, at least in strip clubs, where most of the girls have trust issues anyway. There have been quite a few that like a judicious slap or tweak, but very few who've wanted to go as far as I like.
On a side note, a total turn off is trying to make raunchy jokes when asking if I want an LD. I was just minding my own business texting on my phone and this old (lates 30's early 40's) stripper comes up to me, squats down to eye level and says "quit sending me pictures of your dick" along with the line, "my friends were wondering why I was deepthroating my blackberry over there". Look, if I was in my "urban" clothes, I could possibly understand that approach, but I was in a dress shirt and pants, don't come up to me with a total classless approach when I look like million bucks ya know. Gosh she pissed me off so much and after I told her to go away she still came back a couple more times to tell me things, like she didn't get the hint the first time. So annoying.