Wondering how I can contact reputable escorts without giving them my employment information?
Does anyone know of websites that can help me out?
Most girls on TER require this.. I do not want this girls knowing where I work
There are sites like date-check.com that do the verifying for her, and the escort just checks the site to see if you are legit. Some will also accept statements from other escorts as a reference. There are also some that don't check at at all. The more professional ones do check though. I have heard enough stories of the destroyed information not being destroyed that I would prefer date check.
You may have to start off with the ones that don't check, and mention such sites to them so they can be used as references.
I have some experience with escorts in Western Canada and I have NEVER gone through the procedure you describe.
Here are my moves:
#1. Phone agency or girl.
#2. Meet in bar, lounge, or lobby of hotel.
#3. Check each other out.
#4. Negotiate.
#5. Do deed if negotiations come to deal.
Pretty simple.
I decline any request for ID verification and I will NOT go to any in-call location. I always seem to be able to find what I want.
I think I'd decline the invitation to share my work information as well. I understand what they're trying to do, but that's just too intrusive for something that may end up in an illegal place.
And I'm curious about your reasons for going this route. Variety? Limited availability of other options? Cost?
What state are you in? I started this recently and stumbled on (and then was directed to) some state-specific member-only websites that make searching and verifying easier. Send me a PM if you want.
It IS possible to get an appointment as a newbie (without any references) without having to give up personal info. Everyone has to start somewhere. None of the girls I've seen know my real name (not even my first name) or where I work. Farmerart has good suggestions for setting a meeting. Also, these various websites (again, PM me for examples) have other methods of getting cleared. There are a lot of girls that see newbies, but everyone is understandably concerned for their safety.
Speaking of safety: You should always have yours in mind too. Don't take one for the team (see a girl without any reviews) until you have been in the hobby for a while and are comfortable with how things should work. The chances of having a bad experience or getting setup by Uncle LEO are way too high. A paid membership to TER or some equivalent is critical, but be sure to read lots of a girl's reviews to look for a pattern of shills. Also, look in dedicated complaint sections of each website.
Finally: invest in a hobby phone that you don't use for any other purpose. Tracfone is good and inexpensive. I got a phone and 120 minutes for $40 cash. Last thing you want is calls/texts showing up on a bill that your SO will see (or even worse, your boss if you use a work phone).
If you are looking for escorts along with hobby chat and reviews try ECCIE. They also have strip club reviews and co-ed forums where hobbyists and escorts can chat. The escorts have photo galleries along with reviews by guys off the site. I also post over there.
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Thanks for any help..
Sometimes OTC is hard to grab onto in a new club!
You may have to start off with the ones that don't check, and mention such sites to them so they can be used as references.
Here are my moves:
#1. Phone agency or girl.
#2. Meet in bar, lounge, or lobby of hotel.
#3. Check each other out.
#4. Negotiate.
#5. Do deed if negotiations come to deal.
Pretty simple.
I decline any request for ID verification and I will NOT go to any in-call location. I always seem to be able to find what I want.
And I'm curious about your reasons for going this route. Variety? Limited availability of other options? Cost?
It IS possible to get an appointment as a newbie (without any references) without having to give up personal info. Everyone has to start somewhere. None of the girls I've seen know my real name (not even my first name) or where I work. Farmerart has good suggestions for setting a meeting. Also, these various websites (again, PM me for examples) have other methods of getting cleared. There are a lot of girls that see newbies, but everyone is understandably concerned for their safety.
Speaking of safety: You should always have yours in mind too. Don't take one for the team (see a girl without any reviews) until you have been in the hobby for a while and are comfortable with how things should work. The chances of having a bad experience or getting setup by Uncle LEO are way too high. A paid membership to TER or some equivalent is critical, but be sure to read lots of a girl's reviews to look for a pattern of shills. Also, look in dedicated complaint sections of each website.
Finally: invest in a hobby phone that you don't use for any other purpose. Tracfone is good and inexpensive. I got a phone and 120 minutes for $40 cash. Last thing you want is calls/texts showing up on a bill that your SO will see (or even worse, your boss if you use a work phone).