Teasing

Hopefully it was early enough in your VIP session to look forward to round two.

This is exactly what I used to do! I might as well be the author. At the "Strip Joint" in Pomona, CA they have the exact same arrangement: $10. bikini dances on bench seating at an extreme end of the club. This is still part of the main floor which is a long, narrow space. Only, in my case, I intentionally planned a "warm-up" first of four dances; it wasn't because the VIP room was full. The contact there was two-way, but I didn't really feel like participating too much, because anyone seated nearby can see just about everything, so I kept my involvement to a minimum. The entrance to the VIP, was right next to this space, BUT, you had to pay for the VIP in advance at the bar. The bar was at the complete opposite end of the floor. So, you and the dancer had to walk from the lap area to the bar, pay for the VIP (5 songs/$75-topless, a steal of a deal) then walk back to the same spot, but go in the VIP instead. Oh, the anticipiation that built up during that walk !!! Some of the girls at this club were so good at escorting their customers from the lap area to the bar, and then back to the VIP, that I often thought to myself, "I'd pay $5.00 just for that walk across the floor." I'd then do one or two VIP sessions with my faves at "Da Joint" as it's lovingly referred to. My only diffence from what Steve described, is that after the VIP session, I'd sometimes do four "cool downs" in the main lap area outside the VIP.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, depending on which side of the john/hooker relationship one falls, "pacing" myself isn't an issue for me anymore. "Warming up," however, is an essential part of the game, and is better accomplished in the cheaper lap dance area, than the more expensive VIP.

In general, dancers tend to suck at the tease part of any activity in an SC. Thank god for the few who know how to build things up from when they first join you until they have you on the very edge during dances. The really good ones will keep you in a highly teased state until you empty your wallet for them. It's part of the general decline of customer service. Most dancers just want to get your $$ and grind you to death!

I had a fave whose tease was that she was far more inclined to let me kiss the lips under her belt than the ones on her face. She would take her facial lips and slowly brush them against my lips, and just as I'd start to pucker just a bit, she'd pull away and tell me that the club doesn't allow it. She never did allow a full liplock, but did some quick pecks only. But she kept getting in close, allowing our lips to touch many times, I could feel her breath. And she'd love to grind on my face, with and without g-string. Go figure.

^^^ somehow, in their minds, kisses are more personal. Go figure!

Prim0, they seem that way to me, too. Done properly, kissing is very sensual, and requires mutual participation. Pussy licking, like a blowjob, is just laying back and enjoying it (done right, of course). Both are good, but kissing both parties actually do something.

Steve, there are slight dom-sub overtones in there (you can't touch her quite yet and she knows that), but I'm right there with you, cowboy, on it being a turn-on. The biggest sex organ is the brain and you two are using yours. Does she look like Mila Kunis?

"Does she look like Mila Kunis?"

Sadly, the club's Mila Kunis lookalike and I have parted company.

I always get warm-up dances, glad you've realized these can be fun! I've always gotten one or two tease dances before the main VIP course, it's awesome.

I have no interest in being teased unless it will surely lead to everything.

So steve, if this had happened in my $50/song club in Vancouver, how much would all this activity cost before the 'accident' takes place?

Sheesh..........

warm up dances are ok but if the club is strictly limited to low mileage than forget about it. Here in columbus it does not matter what kind of dance you get - the $10 table dances, the $25 couch dances or the $40-50 VIP dances - you are not going to have sex.

Teasing is her tongue on your cock

Unfortunately in some clubs you cannot get stripper tongue on your cock

You can but the club might not always like it