My hobby is DATY. In the SFran area, it used to be routine. In the LA area, only OTC. Guys, what has been your experience? (DATY = dining at the Y, i.e. cunnilingis.)
Mutual DATY was my main M.O. while clubbing. But too many scares and a fear of bringing something home to the SO has made me pretty much stop doing it. I do miss it tho.
Rick: I've met lots of girls I wouldn't fuck even wearing one if those. I'll freely admit that I'm paranoid about unprotected sex, and maybe I *could* get away with, say, a BBBJ without undue risk. But, I'm paranoid, so...
It's been long enough that don't know what I'm missing, so I'm good. My wife says I'm not particularly good at DATY anyway, so the girls aren't missing much, either. :)
Eating pussy does NOT stimulate me. I do it when I want to stimulate a female. Since I am the one paying, I do NOT feel it necessary to stimulate a stripper. It is her job to stimulate me.
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It's been long enough that don't know what I'm missing, so I'm good. My wife says I'm not particularly good at DATY anyway, so the girls aren't missing much, either. :)
Not something I am willing to pay for. For Free? Yeah I'd do it for the right dancer.
Of course I told her, very firmly, that it was NOT OK...
or maybe I did something else instead. ;)