Songs of choice

Thanks in advance. Cheers.

Being a writer, I have a fantasy of being in a room with a stripper and she asks what I want to her. I tell her and she punches the songs into a jukebox, or I put a mix CD on a player.

Well, here's the problem with that -- the dancer doesn't control the music, and half the time (if not more) the DJ is too much of an @ssh0le to play what the dancer asks for, anyway. (And then she's supposed to tip him at the end of the night? WTF?)

I have successfully tipped the DJ to play a particular song. Apparently, most DJs don't want to piss off a customer that they may never see again, but are willing to piss off a dancer they work with every day.

However, I don't know if you'd have success requesting a certain song *at a certain time*, so getting it while a given dancer is on stage is a crap shoot. Most of the time that I've done it, it's been for this one dancer whose LDs are 100000000% better if "Purple Rain" is playing.

Related issue: The more a dancer likes a song, the better the dance will be (whether stage or LD). So you may be shooting yourself in the foot if you ask a dancer to dance to a song that she doesn't like.

Oddly that just happened to me last Saturday afternoon at the Follies in Atlanta. After chatting me up for 15 minutes, I agreed to a table dance and she asked me what song I wanted to hear. I told her that I really didn't give a shit. That it all sounded the same to me. So then we spent another 10 minutes talking about what music we liked. I didn't mind. All the while, I was allowed to let my hands roam.I did get 2 dances and they were great.

Most clubs I have been to, the girls go to the DJ prior to their set and tell them what songs they want. I have had several girls ask if I had a preference and she went it got it played. Some clubs during the day have juke boxes (no dj) and the girls have to pay to pick their songs. I once had a girl dance to Iron Maiden and the place almost cleared of all the patrons and she had no idea how to dance to heavy metal! I let her follow up with Pour Some Sugar on Me! which is a classic song to get a dance to.

Easy steps, and I have been in clubs all over the country. It does NOT work in clubs with multiple stages, but it almost works without fail in clubs with a single stage:

1) find a girl you like and ask what she likes to dance to
2) ask if she would agree to dance to the song YOU like, and promise to take care of her at the rail during the song
3) tip the DJ. Let him know what dancer has agreed
4) sit back and enjoy.

It is not rocket science.

My favorite to request is the 2-song set "Cocaine" and then "Layla."

My favorite request is Dazed and Confused. Girl looked great dancing to it.

One girl likes bluesy songs. Dancing to Red House by Hendrix looked awesome!

I regularly request songs. Tip the DJ a buck and he'll usually play whatever you want. I always request funk.

phpl: you are the man. Funk in a strip joint. It is a perfect mix.

I do have to wonder when the dancer has the DJ play "Crazy Bitch" by BuckCherry and "Closer" by Nine Inch Nails ("I want to fuck you like an animal. . .I want to feel you from the inside"). I guess crazy sex is some of the best.

They play music?

gmd, that is my standard line if a stage dance or LD is particularly good. Very rarely fails to get a laugh and a 'thank you' from the dancer.