rules of disengagement?

I've found that it's always best to disengage my penis from her mouth or vagina when leaving the VIP. I've gotten some awfully strange looks when I've forgotten.

Seriously, your expectations are too high. You've gotten the time you paid for (whether it was worth it or not is another question), and if you want more, pony up for it.

If a dancer leaves you without giving you a thanks or a goodbye then I never give her repeat business again. Plenty of other dancers who will be appreciative of your money. Also if you do a VIP if you tip a little then she might get the hint to come hang out with you but this is not always effective. My advice is to avoid timed rooms. If they are any good at what they do there should be no reason to extend it beyond a few good lap dances.

I'm often willing to talk before getting dances and then I'm ready to move on to the next dancer.

Some dancers seems to want to sit and talk with me more than I really want them to so I have to figure out ways to speed things up. In one club I believe I'm getting in a habit of telling a dancer that I'm getting ready to leave in a few minutes so that she doesn't try to stay and talk with me for several more minutes and of course want me to buy them another drink.

Once she has your money, she's ready to move on. That's just the way they are in the club's competitive enviornment. Afterglow with you earns no money.

Absolutely agree with samsung1 that a dancer who doesn’t know how to properly disengage has never gotten another dime from me.

An hour would be around 15 songs at $20 ea = $300. You just provided half of her take for the whole damn shift in an hour. It's a stripper's dream. Yeah, she needs to spend a few minutes with you. Maybe you're not allowed to remain in VIP without doing more dances, but she can go pee, freshen-up and then come and spend a little time with you out on the floor.

I think a dancer wanting return visits would:

1. Escort you back to your seat.
2. Leave with a final thank you.
3. Give you a smile if she walks by you or catches your eye later.

Apart from that it might be considered selfish if she doesn't 'release' you for other dancers to try to sell to you or conversely get in the way of your getting dances with other ladies.

georgemicrodong: I know! I hate it when she goes one way and I turn another while my dick is still in her mouth.

Back to the OP--spend your quality time with her before the VIP. Unless she's your ATF, expect that she needs to move on and make more money after your VIP session. After all, she's working, right?

thanks everyone for the feedback. I don't do the VIP very often, and most of the time, I don't usually stick around that long after I do it, but sometimes I still have the rest of my drink and I hang around for a short period and those times I've thought it might be nice to have the girl stick around for a little bit, but I do know it's a business and don't really expect it.

I don't know about you guys, but when I pay a dancer after our laps I'm paying her to LEAVE.