Is she a he?

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scatterbrain
Minnesota
So I was in a "normal" gentleman's club (by any other standards) and I was approached by a rather large, Amazon-like blonde with obvious bolt-ons. My first internal inclination was that she was a he. Later that evening one of the other dancers confirmed that this particular dancer had undergone gender reassignment. Glad I didn't get a dance from her/him, that would seem a little odd to me. Quite frankly, I was a little surprised they let her/him dance in there, but the other dancer said she/he was quite popular.

I was watching Manswers last night and they had a segment on how you can tell if she is really a he, even if you don't go crotch-grabbing (or he's had that removed). Anyone else see the same show? It was quite fascinating and something I was unaware of. I used to think it was the Adam's apple, but they said that's easily shaved down in a minor procedure.



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troop
14 years ago
LOL.. i usually don't mention names but seeing that the "person" i'm about to mention has been gone from the dancing scene for over 6 years i guess it won't matter.
there was a manly dancer at bugsy's speakeasy in elyria several years ago named maddie. there were very strong rumors that maddie was a man or was a man in the past. i remember that one of his/her boyfriends appeared to be a young prissy feminine guy. i always avoided her/him but he/she seemed to be able to make money dancing. maybe it was the fake tittys.
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sinclair
14 years ago
Some of these clubs will hire any THING with tits that can pay a tipout. They see money as more important than your heterosexuality.
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HootnHal
14 years ago
So I'll bite, scatterbrain...I too thot it was the Adam's apple that was the give-away. What's the other clue?
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HootnHal
14 years ago
A long time ago (ok sl. over 30 yr.) I was at a club in Orlando, dont remember its name, but later was asked if any of the girls danced for me, well not really, & I thot it was just because I was not buff but basically skinny & they just didn't happen to come around, turns out i was in a gay hotel club & didn't notice the gals looked good in my young eyes! I do believe that they were all female & that was before gender-switches were made.?!
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boobywatcher
14 years ago
I've heard that hands/fingers are a good indicator.
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MajorBoobage
14 years ago
Boobywatcher, I agree -- men's hands are sort of squareish, but women's are tapered, getting more narrow toward the wrist.
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kronk24
14 years ago
I saw that episode, men have shorter index fingers than their ring finger. Women have ring and index fingers that are the same length.
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spandexman
14 years ago
Many Las Vegas Showgirls are pre-op transsexuals, because they are tall and many are very passable today because of better surgery procedures. There was a she-male in Boston many years ago the 80s, who didn't dance, but huslted drinks which was common back then, and quite frankly she looked very feminine, the other girls teased her for leaving the seat up though. Many models are also transsexuals, in fact one former model ended up in a James Bond movie and it wasn't until later anyone found out she had surgery.
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lopaw
14 years ago
The finger length thing isn't true. A bunch of mixed gendered friends and I compared finger lengths and it was all over the map. Some men had longer index fingers, and some women (like myself) had longer ring fingers. Hardly a scientific basis to determine the true gender of someone.
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samsung1
14 years ago
I think doing the finger test would be way too difficult on a stripper in a strip club. I think it would be too offensive anyways.
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shadowcat
14 years ago
Here is a finger test for you. Just click on my avatar. lol...
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farmerart
14 years ago
Innocent old farmerart never thought that this could be an issue. I guess I really need an experienced guide to accompany me on my SC odyssey.
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txtittyfan
14 years ago
Art,

You just need to make sure you pick your women before you drink too much.
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RocStarsky
14 years ago
I haven't encountered this kind of person that is mentioned from scatterbrain. Surgery can almost make the complete gender change on the cosmetic part. That should be no problem. There are indicators if that person is a male. One sure way is to drag one of those hospital x-ray scans with you and have that person x-rayed. No reproductive system = no man.
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scatterbrain
14 years ago
Kronk24 got the answer correct from the episode I saw. But now Lopaw has instilled a little curiosity. Could it be that we've (I've) been duped. I'm just wondering how many of us full-blooded males on this board have index fingers longer than our ring fingers? Curious minds want to know. Alternatively, how many of the ladies on this board have ring fingers longer than their index fingers? Let's do our own survey.

I, for one, have a longer index finger.
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RapturousOne
14 years ago
Index longer than ring
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mmdv26
14 years ago
A man doesn't usually appear as a really good looking women. You can kind of tell that something isn't quite right - maybe the ears stick out....

Years ago I did several dances with a "new girl", and my fingers were allowed to roam under the thong with no objection. Afterward, another dancer who I had known for some time mentioned that it looked like I was having a good time with the "new girl". I think I kinda' shrugged and said "yeah, uhuh, sorta'". To which she responded, "other guys tell me she doesn't have a pussy." Well yeah, that probably explains it then.
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scatterbrain
14 years ago
I agree with SamPepys, a sad day indeed. Manswers used a plastic surgeon as their "source", so I assumed it had some validity. WTF?!
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troop
14 years ago
Years ago I did several dances with a "new girl", and my fingers were allowed to roam under the thong with no objection. Afterward, another dancer who I had known for some time mentioned that it looked like I was having a good time with the "new girl". I think I kinda' shrugged and said "yeah, uhuh, sorta'". To which she responded, "other guys tell me she doesn't have a pussy." Well yeah, that probably explains it then.
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^ HUH?
care to explain that?
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lopaw
14 years ago
lol
Apparently Manswers needs some schoolin'!
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Prim0
14 years ago
Wasn't there a scene about this in 40 year old virgin? Something about how the hands were bigger and he had an adam's apple bigger than my balls?! LOL

I think the kind of dancers I tend to go for probably wouldn't be questionable when it comes to gender though that's no guarantee. Look at some of those lady boy pics you come across on the net...look like girls to me (maybe that's why I'm not big on asian dancers...too much room for doubt). I'm also thinking that for customers who "see" past the manliness...maybe "she" gives a better LD since "she" knows what we like better?

I don't know...I'm just going to assume that I've only had dances from XX females.
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LeeH
14 years ago
I don't even need to compare with other friends to know that the finger length thing is crap. On my right hand, the index finger is longer than the ring finger; on my left hand, it's vice versa.
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georgmicrodong
14 years ago
Lee: So you're a hermaphrodite!
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scatterbrain
14 years ago
Still curious, I ran across the following discussion- http://www.tgboards.com/forums/viewtopic…

I was particularly intrigued by the study that you might be able to use this finger length indicator to indicate who might be more inclined to engage in casual sex...hmmm?

Re: Finger Length?
by Kristibot » Mon Jun 13, 2005 3:07 pm

But "sexual orientation" is high on the list of the sorts of correlations researchers are trying to make to finger length and androgen exposure - among a number of other things.

When I Googled Dr. Marc Breedlove's name (he's the researcher mentioned in the article link at the top of this thread), among the links was an article on a site called "<a href="http://www.gateway.ualberta.ca/view.php?… Gateway</a>" about another researcher that is trying to establish finger length as an indicator of agressive tendencies. At the end of the article (but not cited as to source) it notes other research involving this finger length stuff:

• A study by British scientists found that people with a masculine digit ratio are associated with fast skiing times. This may help identify young skiers who have potential to reach high levels of performance.

• Andrew Clark from McMaster University found that women with more masculine digit ratios tend to be more promiscuous and willing to engage in casual sex.

• A study in Hungary found that schizophrenic patients have more “feminine” index and ring fingers. This might be due to low fetal androgen/estrogen ratios, which affects brain development.

• A recent unpublished study found that women with masculine digit ratios slam down the phone harder when they’re frustrated.

• Scientists from Australia have determined that digit ratio is not a reliable indicator of poor semen quality.
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