"PSYCHO" Stripper!
i've been stewing over this a couple days now and have debated on whether to post this or not. i will not name the stripper or club involved but here's what happened.ok, i guess most strippers are psycho in one way or another but this one rewrote the book!
i was in a local club a couple days ago, there were a few strippers that i never saw before and i was approached by one that sat and started a conversation with me. she put on a good act like she was really interested in me and my life so i played along with her to see how things would develop. after awhile she asks me if i want some dances. i say that i might but that i want to touch and she just freaks out! she goes into this rant about how it's illegal and that she won't break the law. seeing that there are other dancers that night that have caught my eye and i figure that i can try others i say ok just forget it but she's not done yet. she jumps up out of her chair and throws a tantrum. the music is loud and she's talking so fast that i can't make out alot of what she's saying but i hear something like "you don't have enough money to make me break the law" or something like that. her outburst has caught the attention of others in the club and i'm thinking about how to end this when she suddenly storms off to the dancer dressing room.
whatever good vibes i had that night about the club are ruined now and i sit there for a minute wondering what i should do now and i decide to chug my beer get up and leave.
that bitch totally embarrassed and pissed me off!
now i will be going back in the next couple weeks and i'm hoping that she won't be there. but what if she is?
i do know that i want absolutely nothing to do with her in the future but i will not avoid this club because of her.
i normally don't seek advice as i've experienced all kinds of situations over the years and i like to think that i can handle most situations but this one has me puzzled.
so what would you do if you went through an episode like that and you still want to go back to that club and she's there?
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I am told that many times a bi-polar person will have very little recollection of just how obtuse their behavior was. If you go back to the club and you are faced with having to talk to her and she doesn't apologize for her rude behavior, don't get into a prolonged discussion with her. Just move on to another dancer. If she apologizes, accept her apology and move on to another dancer.
Drink your beer slowly and enjoy it. After all, these are just strippers.
and actually if i see the one mentioned in this thread again i have no intention of talking to her. i guess my main concern is her possibly bad mouthing me to the other dancers. i know they talk among each other and she seemed like the type to really twist something to her perspective and most dancers being stupid it's very possible that the others will believe whatever she tells them.
XXX Manuela
You pervert!
Oh man she's got issues
And I'm gonna pay
Yeah, yeah
She's playing the victim
And taking it all out on me
My most current pshcho story:
In my local favorite club there was a dancer who was over the top in mouthing off, drinking and losing control. One thing she always did with me was come up and say, "when yu gonna pay me the money that you owe me?" Other times should force her way into my personal space and tell me it was her turn for a dance and that I was ignoring her. (I was trying my best up to that point.) Not too long ago her sister (from another shift/same club) tells me that she went in for alcohol rehab. Whether she'll still be nutso when she comes out remains to be seen. And there's a lot more like her out there.
and @ manuela.. welcome XXX :-)
A few months later we had a TUSCL mini convention at the club. About 7 or 8 of us TUSCLers in attendance. She asked Toni if the girls were making any money off us. Toni said yes. Lots. All you have to do is apologize to shadowcat. She didn't and she didn't make any money either.
Avery is still working at the club and I certainly never got banned. We don't talk and she does NOT make any money off me or my friends.
Anyway, go back and if she approaches you, immediately seize the initiative. Don't allow her to speak. Stand, and firmly tell her to go away, "OR ELSE". If she stands her ground, find a manager and threaten to take your $$$ elsewhere.
I learned from dealing with the co-worker that they don't know how to deal with a perceived threat. In the words of Grampa Funk "It overamps their vision monitors, then I bring em in here and make jukeboxes out of em."
There was one stripper, an older woman who saw better days that had an attitude. One night she was stoned and drunk and got mad at the dozen or so of us patrons! "Pay attention!" She screamed over the loud music as she stormed around on the stage in a T-back.
Now she wasn't ugly, but wasn't gorgeous by a longshot. About halfway through her stage tantrum and old regular yelled back. "We're here to see the Stepford Wives not you bitch!"
The rest of us laughed and the stripper stormed off of the stage and disappeared for a couple months and reappeared at another hole in teh wall stripjoint on Tremont Street.
Even dressed the Stepford Wives were sexier than a lot of strippers in the Zone back then. Anyone else remember them?
I believe it's one of the unwritten laws of strip clubs that each club MUST have at least one psycho stripper.