Is she a Player or Not?

Player11 do you consider yourself a player

I am in the same camp as player - I do not spend bundles on dances in a club but use most of it for the good stuff.

Ohio, all spending lots of $$$ in a club is going to do is let her know that she can get it ITC. My gig is simple - the girls know or strongly suspect that I have cash to spend (I am ususally suited) but I don't make anyone to fat and happy ITC. Often I will casually let my bank roll show for a brief moment when I am paying for a drink, so between the suit and the $$$ in pocket the girl KNOWS that I have money, just not what she needs to do to get it out of me.

Years ago it was diferent, when there were lots of dollars chasing the girls and usually only the biggest ITC spenders would have a shot at OTC (for lots more $$$), but today the girls are much more motivated and the thought of picking up $2-300 on her way home can be enticing for a girl that is lucky to clear $200 (after clube fee and tipouts) for a whole night in the club.

I often walk into a club with a thick role of 20s and a few hundreds. But I rarely spend more than $200 ITC, including lots of drinks (me and the girl) and about 100 in tips (about 40 in ones and 60-80 in time tipping).

If OTC is available from a girl, then the combination of knowing you have a wad and having already shown you are willing to spend something on her is enough. Virtually all of my OTC gets negotiated without me ever having to leave the bar, either for a dance or to tip at a stage.

I'm getting exactly the SEX what I want ITC from my preferred dancer & at a pretty decent price. As long as she provides, I'll spend my $$$ on her!

Most girls understand where their "moneymaker" is located and can be persuaded to do ITC or OTC. ITC depends a lot on the club layout and the intensity of supervision present. OTC is entirely a negotiation with the dancer. Don't pay over $300 for OTC - remember, it's just f**king.

Once you find an ITC-friendly club, you can figure out the price scale...if you can't, the dancer will usually explain it to you. Remember, not all dancers do extras, even when it appears that it would be a "must" to compete.

When it comes to VIP/CR rooms, focus on paying for sex with the hot chick on your lap, not the owner's car. Sometimes the only way to nail the hot babe is in the VIP or CR, but it can be costly.

I'm in between. I like to take girls OTC. But there's also an excitement with extremely high contact lap dancing with the right girl that is hard to duplicate. So for me, there's room for both. I don't mind spending money up to a point, I just don't want to waste money. So I like to know what I'm getting into.