taking notes?
LeeH
Georgia
OK, maybe it's just that I'm an old fart, but I'm starting to forget dancer names.
Now one, I think is entirely legit, because I knew her at one club as X, then she went to day-shift at another club as Y, and then night-shift at that club as Z. Naturally, I remembered X and Y, but not Z. Fortunately, she looks distinctive enough to where I recognized her the next time I saw her, and just spun it as I had forgotten her stage name at the new club.
So I wrote it down (actually just a draft in my email) when I got home, as well as other clubs/dancers that I'd want to see (or ask for) again.
This site actually saved my ass recently too. Got a couple similar-looking dancers' names mixed up and was really bummed when one of them blew me off (when I thought we had enough of a connection from past times that she was at least interested in my wallet). Went back later and read a review that I had written, and it turns out I had the wrong girl. Now, at least, I know who to ask for. ;-)
So, anyone else have to resort to this, or should I go get an Alzheimer's test?
Now one, I think is entirely legit, because I knew her at one club as X, then she went to day-shift at another club as Y, and then night-shift at that club as Z. Naturally, I remembered X and Y, but not Z. Fortunately, she looks distinctive enough to where I recognized her the next time I saw her, and just spun it as I had forgotten her stage name at the new club.
So I wrote it down (actually just a draft in my email) when I got home, as well as other clubs/dancers that I'd want to see (or ask for) again.
This site actually saved my ass recently too. Got a couple similar-looking dancers' names mixed up and was really bummed when one of them blew me off (when I thought we had enough of a connection from past times that she was at least interested in my wallet). Went back later and read a review that I had written, and it turns out I had the wrong girl. Now, at least, I know who to ask for. ;-)
So, anyone else have to resort to this, or should I go get an Alzheimer's test?
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ok seriously i usually don't have any trouble remembering the name of a dancer i like and i really don't care if i don't remember the names of other dancers or if they get offended because i didn't rember their names.
Seriously, Lee, after leaving a club, I just jot down all the names I recall from visit ( on newspaper, hotel notepad, or even rental car map) with + or - sign by name,( depending on how good or bad dancer was) and if a lot of dancers, brief description. Usually the name is enough to jog memory when I get around to writing review, or returning for another visit weeks later.
I use a iphone app called Momento. Its made for keeping a diaries or something so it when you have a 'moment', you can jot it down. The tags feature let you record places, names, etc. so it's real handy.
When a girl goes up on stage I search for her name and it shows me any notes I made about her to include previous dances, mileage, etc.
It's also fun sometimes to go back and see some of the notes on someone, i.e. pussy smells, she felt sweaty but ground me down and so on.
minnow, funny intro ;-)
minnow and Kohl, thanks, I feel better now ;-)
Regarding Alzheimers -- anybody who is afraid they may be getting Alzheimers is NOT getting Alzheimers. The actual victims don't have the faintest idea anything is wrong with them and they blame their problems on others around them. It is a sad, sad disease. Forgetfulness and dementia, are very different. Alzheimer's is one form of dementia. Here is the basic difference between forgetfulness and dementia. Forgetfulness is when you can't find your keys. Dementia is when you don't know what your keys are for.
One time a stripper gave me her number and I figured I could memorize it. Well by the time I got out to my car where my cell phone was, I forgot it.
I remember the names of two types of dancers. Those that I liked a lot and those that were shitty or ROBs.
If you have met her several times and had great times with her and do not remember her name, you are an idiot.
It sucks to forget the bad ones almost as much as it sucks to remember them.
- I'm not *worried* about offending a dancer, though I'd *prefer* not to offend any human being. Stop channeling Dougster.
- If I've met her *once* and had a great time, I want to remember her name, and I'm not a fool if I don't.
Most of the clubs here are honest about who's on that night if you call ahead. You get a straight answer when you call and ask "Is Stephanie on tonight?". Not so much when you ask "Is the big-titted brunette who looks like this girl I went to college with, on tonight?"