You ever feel bad about a new dancer looking sad and rejected because you quickl
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Maybe I was just another straw in a series of rejections. Anyway a dancer I wasn't that interested in quickly came over to me while sitting at the stage when I wanted to tip someone else. While the dancer was moving around and her back was turned, I threw a dollar on stage and quickly moved back to a table. She looked rejected and didn't even see the dollar I threw on stage for a while. Maybe she didn't care about the dollar. I don't like destroying dancer enthusiasm but sometimes you just aren't that interested in all the dancers. So I felt like I accidentally destroyed one dancer's enthusiasm at one club. I thought I saw her in street clothes before I even left and I left early. Oh well.
At another club for a few seconds, I was wondering if two dancers were ready to fight over me. It was a bit aggressive for the one dancer to come sit beside me when I'm already sitting with another dancer. She looked good and she had danced for me on a number of occasions. I can't remember at which club though. After thinking about this, now I'm wondering if she is a former Columbia PP club dancer. I don't mind her coming after me. Maybe she thought she was just being friendly.
At another club while I was sitting a table, one dancer came up to me, rubbed my legs with hers and her hands. Then she said "you look really good." I'm not sure if I've had too many dancers say those exact words. That's a nice approach. Actually I enjoyed the dancers who were sitting on my lap better.
Where are all these people coming into strip clubs at a late hour and it's like 2 guys and 4 girls or 3 guys and 6 girls in each group? The drunk partying female customers dancing around were more entertaining to watch after a while than the dancer on stage.
This could be 3 or 4 topics in one. A three for one,lol. (I go to clubs that offer two for one dances.)
I guess if you become friends with bi girls it's possible you might end up at another strip club with friends and your group might be 2 guys and 4 girls, etc. What's your opinion of partying girls in strip clubs? or rejecting dancers?
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A) Doing something illegal, and a club isn't supposed to knowingly tolerate illegal activity on their property, and...
B) Stealing business from girls working the club.
or rejecting dancers?
Clubs refer to dancers as independent contractors and treat them as such. Dancers are independent contactors. They are marketing a product. They are responsible for presentation to the customer in such a away that catches the customer's attention and makes the customer want to buy the product.
Many dancers don't bother to study business, let alone understand it. Every decision they make in a club is a business decision. Some understand to check a customer's shoes,teeth, and drink as suitability for profitability. However, if the dancer is 19 and cute and she turns her nose up at a fat and balding, but well dressed customer, it's her fault if she struggles with tip out and locker fees because fat old guys turn her off.
Granted, it's easy to get grossed out if a guy turns them off, but punching a clock, for many, is difficult. Very few and lucky are those who actually look forward to going to work every day. A dancer is selling sex. It's her responsibility to keep good hygiene and be relatively sober to keep her wits about her to make money in a situation where clothes, morals, and often good judgement hit the floor.
Now if a dancer I WANT to sit with me comes up, I don't much give a damn what she asks, but I do hope she at least has some conversational skills. I recall a club in Texas where this lovely Asian (my favorite) dancer asks to sit with me. I was going to ask her anyway when she got on stage. Of course I accepted. We exchanged a few lines of "conversation", then she did a couple of dances for me. She then sat on my lap and I found out she was as dumb as a rock. No conversational skills at all. Lucky for me, she got up to go outside and smoke.
I do sometimes "feel bad" turning down dancers that I got lap dances from before, but for one reason or another didn’t “click†with. I've even got reluctant to stage tip some of them, since they take that as interest and come around afterwards looking for a dance.
Just comes with the territory I guess.
Little baby lions look really cute and vulnerable too, but it won't stop them from gnawing on your limbs if you get too caught up in their drama.
Had one ask me the other night, "so, do you like me?" After all of thirty seconds conversation. I try not to be impolite, especially in the face of that much apparent desperation, but the best I could come up with was "I don't have an opinion one way or the other."
This brings up a related thought. Have you ever said "No" to a girl only to then watch her with someone else and think, "Damn - she's better than I thought." Then you feel kind of sheepish trying to get her attention later. Luckily, dancers seem to have a short memory in clubs, so if I was polite and my money's green, all is usually forgiven.
Rod, money in hand will result in forgiveness almost every time. ;)
I didn't feel one bit of guilt over her.
On the flip side, if a dancer is nice about it, but I'm just not interested (or at least, not then), I'll turn her down nicely, but ask her name. This generally makes her feel better, that maybe I'll look her up later. And even if I don't, she'll have forgotten soon anyway.