As an offshoot to the low mileage thread..... Lets say you encounter a new dancer, or its your 1st visit to club in new city that you may get repetitive visits to. She looks better than most dancers, you pick up decent initial vibes, but when you go in the back...... Dance is subpar/unsat for whatever reason (mileage, dance way too mechanical, go through motions, etc). Often, for me, its 1 or 2 or out. I've sometimes slipped in suggestions, like- "do you have any other fave position", "I sure like the feel of good breasts/ silky smooth legs", etc, but even that doesn't do the trick in many cases. What have been your experiences for turning an initial subpar encounter into subsequent satisfactory visits? Proper "coaching" by you, or just simply a matter of dancer improving over time? Did "2nd chances work out?
Myself, I can't say that I've made a silk purse out of a sows ear. Low mileage dancers will often stay low mileage,or move on. A couple of cases, I gave 2nd chances, & things improved. In the slight case, dancer was (still is) very attractive, but relatively low mileage on initial contact. I tried again on slow night ( she undoubtedly noticed me getting multiple dances with OTHER different dancers). She's not the nastiest, but got in the zone enough to be a "warmup lap". In other case, dancer was new to area & club (but not dancing). Her nervousness was obvious, and dance very mechanical. Some months later, ran into her again, was less nervous, and much better in the back.
Your experiences................
minnow, I don't know if you call trainable but repeat dances usually prodestes higther mileage.