The dancers I keep coming back to all provide the “Girlfriend Experience†to one degree or another. I'm willing to sacrifice some hotness for good GFE.
I realize this is not for everyone, so just curious who else is a fan?
And if you are, what makes up a good GFE for you?
Dudester,
About how I met my ATF. It was her being Asian and her choice in "dance" music that attracted me. It was when, during conversation stage, that we found we had common friends outside the club scene. Made things even more interesting.
Yes, I am a fan of GFE.
What makes "good GFE" is the illusion of intimacy. This typically involves DFK, but more importantly involves her casually trying to convince me that she's basically taking a break from her job while she is with me. That's the kind of illusion that makes GFE memorable.
GFE for me is nagging to be on time, her asking to buy her another drink, etc, and listening to her complain about her family and life. I don't know what kind of girlfriend's you have had, LOL!
Wish I had a picture of the new VIP "make out" rooms at The Flight Club to post. Soft pastel colors on the walls with the light behind the surface provides ambient mood lighting. Extra large gold sofa for two padded all over. Then large open carpeted "play area" between the sofa and entry curtain. As I said before, if one takes out the sofa, a queen-size bed fits easy.
Gator, you didn't have to go shopping for hours on end too?
CT, yeah, I love them wanting me to take them shopping and buy them stuff, too.
No, any girl handles that fine on their own.
GFE- to be a good dancer it is imperative that you always make the guy feel special. Lets face it....guys come to a club for this type of experience. They usually want this because they are not getting it a home. The dancers who are the best will take the time to listen to their guys and treat them in a special way that they want to be treated.
I feel responsible to make the determination, and quckly what my guy is wanting. Some want to have the GFE but others may be looking for a slut to dance for them and provide some extras.....i have learned that every client is different. I place much pressure on myself to know what is expected of me and then it is my job to seal the deal....whatever it may be.
When I come in she recognizes I am there and says hi. Sits and talks awhile with me, I order us food and she feeds it to me, while eating with me. We do a few dances, talk some more, do more dances. I tell her she can leave and go make money with other customers if she needs to, but she says she is great staying with me. At the end of the visit we kiss, hug and I leave.
Best GFE ever. Boy does she know how to work me. At least I know she isn't coming home with me...lol.
Best GFE , funny word is a web site too.
"Best GFE , funny word is a web site too."
Probably staffed by a bunch of overweight, middleaged balding men in a Ukranian basement, lol.
judyjudy for president!
Vince, only do that if they provide a BJ in a dressing stall at Nordstrom's! (FS if they drag you through the shoe dept., btw.)
CTQWERTY, No, that's Best KGB!
I had my best ever GFE about 5 months ago with a dancer I have known for 6 or 7 years.I think her marrige is on the rocks. A lot of DFK. I even had her laid out on the couch (a NO NO)while I went down on her.Her pic is the last on my page. Then it turned shitty. I said I would not last 5 minutes in bed with you. She said it could happen but for $500. Woah. I know 3, not as beautiful that will do it for $150 or less. We have done dances since then but not nearly that erotic. I got a PM from TimboATL. He hooked with her and another favorite for a 3 some. They went down on each other and took care of him. I did not get a price. I do have her email address and phone number but $500 is out. $200, Yes.I can afford it but you gotta draw some limits.
Judy,
Being a GFE does NOT preclude slutty behavior in the third or fourth dance. :)
The best of both worlds.
I think GFE means the dancer is focused on us, the customer, and could include about anything.
I've had GFE a few times. Usually it doesn't happen with a dancer straight off, takes a few times for us to get to know each other a little. And to be honest, it's different with every one. I enjoy DFK a lot, but not all of my GFE's include that and some that include that I don't rank as GFE's. I agree with gatorfan, the dancer has to be focused on me, not bored and just going through the motions. There has to be some level of emotional connection too (or at least faked really well). The eyes have a lot to do with it too, as lame as that sounds. She has to look like she's not just having fun, but having fun being with me!
Okay, all is fine and well in the GFE realm until she starts reaching for the plastic! Latex, okay. Plastic, nope!
Been meeting this gal around 2 yr who dances at club near me. She is blonde, 5', x Cheerleader, with DD Boobs. Positive personality, no drama, always on time, says sex is her hobby, doesn't do drugs. She will come in and get naked on the bed. Sometimes I have her sit on divan with me while she smokes cig and I feel her. In bed, I will give her a sexy backrub while she tells me stuff about her upcoming wedding / honeymoon (planning) and how her getting married (they are common law now) won't change our meetings. Then she turns over and starts giving me fantastic HJ and a little later slips condom on very skillfully. Plays some more then gets on top of me reverse missionary pos (facing me, on top, leaning forward and thrusting). It is really good, her pussy feels nice and tight. She gets me off every time in 5-8 min. I have also done her itc in CR and it is really good. I did her yesterday for $200 but tomorrow it will be $100. POP has averaged around $150 and she usually gets around $1100 a month from me as this pays her mortgage. I would like to do a threesome with her and her bi GF who is a BJ specialist but she says that gal charges a lot.
When the lights go out the hotness factor does not matter too much. I would rather spend the time and money with a high mileage 6, then a low mileage 9.
Sam, have you met Detroit yet???
nope! but there are a few jackjoints around columbus. Also the upscale clubs are YMMV but usually low mileage although you will find a couple of strippers here and there willing to break all the rules for you.
Sam, you need to go... The Mosh Pit at Bogart's Lounge alone will leave you ....
ITC a GFE is one that takes the time to talk about what you want to do with her in the vip and then follows through with it. most strippers don't understand the payment price includes chat time too.$400 an hour is alot of my money.can't stand the bait and switch strippers although that would be like a girlfriend telling you one thing and doing another.OTC GFE is a lady that just understand me and i don't have to tell her what to do sexully the whole time.the one i'm seeing doesn't put a time limit on me i just go till i'm done for a set price.and that is my OTC ALF GFE ....no rush
dayton is probably the closest thing in Ohio that could compare to Detroit. That is only about 1 hour drive for me.
Dayton? Don't think I've ever heard of a club there.
CCRiderm is right. Being a GFE does not necessarily mean you (dancer)read the customer and give him what he wants--that's a dancer's job description. GFE implies something different. It's intimacy, or illusion of intimacy as How says. It's also honest familiarity and anticipation, or the illusion of it.
For me, GFE encompasses most of what's been discussed, and she gets me off.
what makes up a good GFE for you?
She talks to me for a while instead of just rushing to "Wanna dance ?"
She is willing to talk about herself instead of just pumping me for information
We have some common interests-she knows who Clive Cussler or Tom Clancy is