There's a club I really enjoy visiting. In the past, I've spent a lot of money in this club. More than I should have, really. I got the attention of the dancers, the bouncers, the management... (Oddly enough, not the bar tenders and waitresses!) I ended up with a VIP card that I used on a few occasions.
Times are tougher now. My play money is not what it used to be. I try new clubs hoping to find that spark... Every time I think I've spent enough time away from my favorite club, I go back to find that I'm still remembered as the guy who spends a lot of money. And the problem is, it's expected now.
Have I made the ultimate mistake in clubbing? Is there any way to repair this faux pas and reset the status quo?
I had a weak moment at my regular club and got a VIP room with an OK, but not a favorite, dancer. Somewhere in the process I ended up with a VIP card, but managed to avoid getting pegged as a high roller. I think I maintain my positive status at this place not by spending a lot of money, but by being consistent in my spending. I'll buy a round or two of shots from the shot girl, but say "no" to more. The same goes for drinks and dances. I am always good for a drink and a couple of dances with my regulars, but usually can say no to more without pissing off the girls. The only one who persistantly bugs me for expensive VIP dances is the one I had the original session with, and even she realizes that it's not likely that I go with her again. High roller? No. Consistently good regular? Yes. VIP? Maybe, but I figure they are still making money if I show up more often and spend less.